Rabbi YY Jacobson addresses the 'leadership' and addiction in this clip, portion at 28:00 minutes in, he says we have this year, alone 120 young women and men in the torah observant community.
It goes untl 37:00 minutes. Well worth listening to for 9 minutes.
Link:
http://bit.ly/RabbiJacobsonSchoolLeadershipAddictionIssuepeople worshipping the system vs. the system is there to promote life, (not as traps to promote death, he says...)
There is a massive difference between kicking a kid out because of his behavior and what appears to had have happens here.
Here, Rabbi Jacobson said it was 3 things (eating in a pizza shop, buying a friend a $20 gift, and 'nivul peh', and that's why she was kicked out. They did not allow even one week to find another school. This affected her terribly.