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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #980 on: August 04, 2017, 02:46:39 PM »
And if some teenager gets a hold of it...
Or sells it to his friends for some extra cash...
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #981 on: August 04, 2017, 03:13:37 PM »
The guy in shul who has oxy and percocet he refills regularly for his (no longer hurting) hip replacement and doesnt use and has been (quietly) looking for a buyer is the problem we have.

Are you serious?

If this is real, I would ask a competent LOR what to do. My initial reaction is that this would almost qualify for דין רודף!
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #982 on: August 04, 2017, 03:14:55 PM »
And if some teenager gets a hold of it...
B.H. not an issue in my household. If there was ever any type of חשש דחשש of anything of the sort, it wouldn't be kept at home for a second.
I've been waiting over 5 years with bated breath for someone to say that!
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #983 on: August 04, 2017, 03:15:49 PM »
Or sells it to his friends for some extra cash...
My kids just come to Dad's ATM. (Not sure if  :) or  :( is the appropriate emoji for this).
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #984 on: August 04, 2017, 03:22:17 PM »
Are you serious?

If this is real, I would ask a competent LOR what to do. My initial reaction is that this would almost qualify for דין רודף!
Im in the minority on thinking exactly the way you do. Everyone thinks he's kidding. I know he isnt.
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #985 on: August 04, 2017, 05:21:23 PM »
Are you serious?

If this is real, I would ask a competent LOR what to do. My initial reaction is that this would almost qualify for דין רודף!
What's the shaila? Of course he has din of a rodeph. He shouls be reported to the authorities asap.

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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #986 on: August 04, 2017, 05:35:23 PM »
Im in the minority on thinking exactly the way you do. Everyone thinks he's kidding. I know he isnt.
If you know he's not, why not ask a competent LOR what to do, and ACT ON IT!
I've been waiting over 5 years with bated breath for someone to say that!
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #987 on: August 04, 2017, 05:56:42 PM »
If you know he's not, why not ask a competent LOR what to do, and ACT ON IT!
+1 You seem to be familiar enough with who understands these issues.
Feelings don't care about your facts

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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #988 on: August 04, 2017, 06:47:03 PM »
+1 You seem to be familiar enough with who understands these issues.
He is not actively selling. He has a stash and he is shopping it. Its not as simple as it seems unfortunately. It never is.
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #989 on: August 05, 2017, 02:32:35 PM »
He is not actively selling. He has a stash and he is shopping it. Its not as simple as it seems unfortunately. It never is.
Buy it and then report.

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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #990 on: August 05, 2017, 09:46:09 PM »
B.H. not an issue in my household. If there was ever any type of חשש דחשש of anything of the sort, it wouldn't be kept at home for a second.
Mho, don't keep it at home. Period.
Treat it like lethal poisen.

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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #991 on: August 05, 2017, 09:57:19 PM »
Mho, don't keep it at home. Period.
Treat it like lethal poisen.
Don't keep painkillers at home ?
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #992 on: August 05, 2017, 10:16:37 PM »
Don't keep painkillers at home ?
Not just sitting there. Use them as prescribed and then dispose.

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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #993 on: August 05, 2017, 10:28:54 PM »
And if some teenager gets a hold of it...
Why do you think this is only a teenager issue?

B.H. not an issue in my household. If there was ever any type of חשש דחשש of anything of the sort, it wouldn't be kept at home for a second.
Yup. I'm sure nobody has ever been in your house who may be looking around for these things. And of course nobody in your family.  ::)
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #994 on: August 05, 2017, 10:36:42 PM »
Why do you think this is only a teenager issue?
Yup. I'm sure nobody has ever been in your house who may be looking around for these things. And of course nobody in your family.  ::)
+1

Many guests have raided medicine cabinets..

Much more common then most people imagine.

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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #995 on: August 05, 2017, 10:42:24 PM »
+1

Many guests have raided medicine cabinets..

Much more common then most people imagine.
And coat pockets and hand bags for cash.
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #996 on: August 05, 2017, 10:44:10 PM »
+1

Many guests have raided medicine cabinets..

Much more common then most people imagine.
+1

We had a guest that raided the cabinets twice. 


Meanwhile I still believe in being able to have painkillers around as well as alcohol and more. 
 The idea is about raising your children well. 
If you know one of your kids has a problem that's a diff story.  Do what you need to do.

Though I do agree it's smart to get rid of pills when you're done with them. 


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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #998 on: August 10, 2017, 09:18:44 AM »
Many guests have raided medicine cabinets..

Much more common then most people imagine.
Make them off limits to guest then. I guess that would be a problem if only one bathroom.
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Re: Silent Killer
« Reply #999 on: August 10, 2017, 09:46:54 AM »
Make them off limits to guest then.

After the fact, yes.
Though many times you'd have no idea that they're addicted before they steal your pills.
And if it takes you a year to notice pills missing you might not have any idea who took them.

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I guess that would be a problem if only one bathroom.

Even if you have a personal bathroom it can't be that hard to get a few minutes of separation if they're motivated enough.