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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #15 on: December 04, 2016, 03:14:17 PM »
Just refer her back to the T&C of the Kesuba:

It says: ואנא...כהלכות גוברין יהודאין...וצביאת

Translated into plain English that reads, I will help you apply for all Credit Cards and Deals posted on DDF or on DDMS and you agreed.
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #16 on: December 04, 2016, 04:17:54 PM »
Tell her that wearing a shaitel is also a shtick and you don't let her. Or just mail her cards to your p.o. box

is this mutar? doesnt the wife belong to the man.
so should the man just be able to say im signing you up
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #17 on: December 04, 2016, 04:24:17 PM »
is this mutar? doesnt the wife belong to the man.
so should the man just be able to say im signing you up
This is where it gets tricky. She needs to give a get for you to sign up for her. Some don't care but IIRC Chase wants a notarized copy.
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #18 on: December 04, 2016, 04:24:33 PM »
Have you taken her on a vacation that you could not have gotten anywhere close to affording with out credit card "shtick"?

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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #19 on: December 04, 2016, 04:25:41 PM »
This here it gets tricky. She needs to give a get for you sign up for her. Some don't care but IIRC Chase wants a notarized copy.

You know what they say. Third time is a charm.
So you're on 3 ss#?

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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #20 on: December 04, 2016, 04:26:30 PM »
So you're on 3 ss#?
More than that. A couple of them I never married.
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #21 on: December 04, 2016, 04:26:58 PM »
Have you taken her on a vacation that you could not have gotten anywhere close to affording with out credit card "shtick"?
Problem is that whenever she comes along, she want to travel Y. You should have seen the looks she gave me after I booked the BF TK deal in J.
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #22 on: December 04, 2016, 04:36:08 PM »
This is where it gets tricky. She needs to give a get for you to sign up for her. Some don't care but IIRC Chase wants a notarized copy.
I heard you can use a cattle prod if she refuses

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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #23 on: December 04, 2016, 04:37:04 PM »
Definitely worse than burnt toast.
Save your time, I don't answer PM. Post it in the forum and a dedicated DDF'er will get back to you as soon as possible.

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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #24 on: December 04, 2016, 04:45:10 PM »
Is seems the chief rabbi has been demoted.
Nah we all know that Chief Rebetzin is the ultimate authority...

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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #25 on: December 04, 2016, 05:00:52 PM »
There needs be a line on the shiduch resume (right under the pic) if she is 5/24, CPC or ever had a Amex Plat.

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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #26 on: December 04, 2016, 05:02:13 PM »
(right under the pic)
Today is Sunday, not Friday.
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #27 on: December 04, 2016, 06:18:42 PM »
There needs be a line on the shiduch resume (right under the pic) if she is 5/24, CPC or ever had a Amex Plat.

If she's survived an FR already then you marry her without even meeting.

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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #28 on: December 04, 2016, 06:23:22 PM »
There needs be a line on the shiduch resume (right under the pic) if she is 5/24, CPC or ever had a Amex Plat.
ALOL
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #29 on: December 04, 2016, 06:23:55 PM »
If she's survived an FR already then you marry her without even meeting.
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In that case she's probably already over 5/24
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