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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #20 on: December 04, 2016, 04:26:30 PM »
So you're on 3 ss#?
More than that. A couple of them I never married.
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #21 on: December 04, 2016, 04:26:58 PM »
Have you taken her on a vacation that you could not have gotten anywhere close to affording with out credit card "shtick"?
Problem is that whenever she comes along, she want to travel Y. You should have seen the looks she gave me after I booked the BF TK deal in J.
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #22 on: December 04, 2016, 04:36:08 PM »
This is where it gets tricky. She needs to give a get for you to sign up for her. Some don't care but IIRC Chase wants a notarized copy.
I heard you can use a cattle prod if she refuses

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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #23 on: December 04, 2016, 04:37:04 PM »
Definitely worse than burnt toast.
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #24 on: December 04, 2016, 04:45:10 PM »
Is seems the chief rabbi has been demoted.
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #25 on: December 04, 2016, 05:00:52 PM »
There needs be a line on the shiduch resume (right under the pic) if she is 5/24, CPC or ever had a Amex Plat.

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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #26 on: December 04, 2016, 05:02:13 PM »
(right under the pic)
Today is Sunday, not Friday.
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #27 on: December 04, 2016, 06:18:42 PM »
There needs be a line on the shiduch resume (right under the pic) if she is 5/24, CPC or ever had a Amex Plat.

If she's survived an FR already then you marry her without even meeting.

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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #28 on: December 04, 2016, 06:23:22 PM »
There needs be a line on the shiduch resume (right under the pic) if she is 5/24, CPC or ever had a Amex Plat.
ALOL
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #29 on: December 04, 2016, 06:23:55 PM »
If she's survived an FR already then you marry her without even meeting.
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In that case she's probably already over 5/24
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #30 on: December 04, 2016, 06:24:09 PM »
Today is Sunday, not Friday.
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Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #31 on: December 04, 2016, 06:24:50 PM »
שבת שני של גלויות
We can save that popcorn for nittle nacht.
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« Reply #32 on: December 04, 2016, 06:25:27 PM »
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In that case she's probably already over 5/24
I had the same thought (Although I survived an FR before hitting 5/24 so I guess there can be exceptions)
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #33 on: December 04, 2016, 06:25:42 PM »
Have you taken her on a vacation that you could not have gotten anywhere close to affording with out credit card "shtick"?

yup. and she says that since i dont mind opening cards under my name we should just go on vacation that way.
is halachichly a wife allowed to tell a husband you cant open any cards under my name?
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #34 on: December 04, 2016, 06:26:09 PM »
We can save that popcorn for nittle nacht.
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #35 on: December 04, 2016, 06:26:36 PM »
yup. and she says that since i dont mind opening cards under my name we should just go on vacation that way.
is halachichly a wife allowed to tell a husband you cant open any cards under my name?
That question belongs here
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #36 on: December 04, 2016, 06:27:24 PM »
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It's the first night of Chanuka this year.
Right, I forgot about that. This creates a huge problem though....
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #37 on: December 04, 2016, 06:28:53 PM »
anyone else have this problem?  :'(
she says she doesn't like to do shtick
Do her cc's straight.  Show her what spending you plan to do on her cards.  I'm sure you've got 3-5K of real life to spend in 3 months. And keep all her stuff on the straight and narrow. 
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #38 on: December 04, 2016, 06:31:03 PM »
Do her cc's straight.  Show her what spending you plan to do on her cards.  I'm sure you've got 3-5K of real life to spend in 3 months. And keep all her stuff on the straight and narrow.
Yea, why does signing up for a CC have to involve shtick?
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Re: Wife not signing up for credit cards
« Reply #39 on: December 04, 2016, 06:31:09 PM »
Do her cc's straight.  Show her what spending you plan to do on her cards.  I'm sure you've got 3-5K of real life to spend in 3 months. And keep all her stuff on the straight and narrow.
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You are probably unfamiliar with how women talk. Anything you might do that is lucrative could be called shtick.
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