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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #20 on: December 28, 2016, 09:09:00 PM »
Which is how every letter is written to Lakewood residents.
Just like how everyone is a Rov in this town.
Did they post it anywhere other than in Yeshiva?
Sounds like a chip on your shoulder more than anything else.
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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #21 on: December 28, 2016, 09:43:07 PM »
Which is how every letter is written to Lakewood residents.
Just like how everyone is a Rov in this town.
Plenty of Mr. 's  in Lakewood.

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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #22 on: December 28, 2016, 10:06:57 PM »
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Singles out oilam hatorah bimachanainu lakewood.
+1 was only put up 2 days ago to be mkayim thier chiyuv ma'acha. Was put up in a quiet way deff not meant to assur it or anything to serious, just to get bmg talmidim to think about it if it pa'ases for them to go that's the line hayom omer kach ul'machar kach... from a mussar perspective...
 
The joke is it should've said on the bottom sponsored by zman... aron has stock in it and wanted to promote it

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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #23 on: December 29, 2016, 02:55:40 AM »
+1 was only put up 2 days ago to be mkayim thier chiyuv ma'acha. Was put up in a quiet way deff not meant to assur it or anything to serious, just to get bmg talmidim to think about it if it pa'ases for them to go that's the line hayom omer kach ul'machar kach... from a mussar perspective...
 
The joke is it should've said on the bottom sponsored by zman... aron has stock in it and wanted to promote it

If that's true, my comment is that mussar should be given in person, not in an impersonal letter posted on a bulletin board.

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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #24 on: December 29, 2016, 08:27:02 AM »
Did they post it anywhere other than in Yeshiva?
Sounds like a chip on your shoulder more than anything else.

+1 was only put up 2 days ago to be mkayim thier chiyuv ma'acha. Was put up in a quiet way deff not meant to assur it or anything to serious, just to get bmg talmidim to think about it if it pa'ases for them to go that's the line hayom omer kach ul'machar kach... from a mussar perspective...
 
The joke is it should've said on the bottom sponsored by zman... aron has stock in it and wanted to promote it

All I know is that I went to a chanuka party and everyone there told me that it's assur to go there.
And I'm not in yeshiva. So whoever was behind this campaign failed miserably.
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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #25 on: December 29, 2016, 09:03:31 AM »
All I know is that I went to a chanuka party and everyone there told me that it's assur to go there.
And I'm not in yeshiva. So whoever was behind this campaign failed miserably.
Or succeeded brilliantly depending on how you look at it.
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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #26 on: December 29, 2016, 09:09:29 AM »
Or succeeded brilliantly depending on how you look at it.
Yea. I guess, if crooked logic is your thing.

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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #27 on: December 29, 2016, 09:11:28 AM »
Yea. I guess, if crooked logic is your thing.
Well if the goal was really to get everybody, not just yeshiva, to know that it was assur then yes, it succeeded. If not then it was just an unintended consequence.
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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #28 on: December 29, 2016, 09:44:05 AM »
Yea. I guess, if crooked logic is your thing.
Wow you sound open minded ::)

Looks like chip on the shoulder is an understatement, it must be a YUUUUGE chunk.
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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #29 on: December 29, 2016, 09:47:18 AM »
Wow you sound open minded ::)

Looks like chip on the shoulder is an understatement, it must be a YUUUUGE chunk.
I (believe I) am extremely open-minded. Unless open-minded means adding on or removing anything from my G-ds words. I have nothing but utmost respect for gedolim and for chumras. As long as it doesn't get too finely woven in and mistaken as Halacha.

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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #30 on: December 29, 2016, 12:45:55 PM »
I (believe I) am extremely open-minded. Unless open-minded means adding on or removing anything from my G-ds words. I have nothing but utmost respect for gedolim and for chumras. As long as it doesn't get too finely woven in and mistaken as Halacha.
Like writing this about a request Roshei Yeshiva wrote to their own yeshiva?
Holier than thou Jews.
I don't think that anyone is under the illusion that it someone who would otherwise go to a movie or even an NBA game should not attend this play.
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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #31 on: December 29, 2016, 12:49:49 PM »
All I know is that I went to a chanuka party and everyone there told me that it's assur to go there.
And I'm not in yeshiva. So whoever was behind this campaign failed miserably.
According to your way of saying it you were mekabel lashon Hara or motzi shem ra on the Roshei Yeshiva.

Who are you upset at?
  • The Roshei Yeshiva for hanging up a sign in their own yeshiva only.
  • The people who considered you to be a part of those who it was talking to
  • The ones who posted about it online without bothering to find out what really happened
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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #32 on: December 29, 2016, 12:58:31 PM »


Like writing this about a request Roshei Yeshiva wrote to their own yeshiva?I

I did not write that about any Rosh Hayeshiva. The question was who was behind it. And I am confident that it wasnt them regardless whose name is scribbled on bottom.

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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #33 on: December 29, 2016, 01:43:58 PM »
According to your way of saying it you were mekabel lashon Hara or motzi shem ra on the Roshei Yeshiva.

Who are you upset at?
  • The Roshei Yeshiva for hanging up a sign in their own yeshiva only.
  • The people who considered you to be a part of those who it was talking to
  • The ones who posted about it online without bothering to find out what really happened

Don't know what your rambling about Lashon horo.
I got the messages forwarded to me and didn't really pay attention.

Then I met a bunch of working guys at a party saying that it's completely assur to go and I cant even question why.

So yes, whoever was behind it, failed miserably.
And I agree with those that think yeshiva mussar should be given as a mussar shmooze in yeshiva, not on some gimmicky sign that's gonna get passed around.
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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #34 on: December 29, 2016, 06:53:09 PM »
This is not a working guy vs learning guy thing.

If you can relate to the sign and it's message then it is addressed to you.

If you can't, then just ignore it and move on. It's not for you.

If you see this sign and for some reason it bothers you, irks you, makes you feel guilty, resentful or worthless. You should analyze why it is that you are feeling this way:
If it's because you realize that you are so far removed from the yeshiva world and yeshivalite that you can't even relate... Then these feelings should be channeled for good. - Take it as a wake up call.

If you still can't deal with the fact that you can't relate, and feel the need to delegitimize, and demean the message and it's messengers, you're sadly pretty lost. Good luck!

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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #35 on: December 29, 2016, 07:45:40 PM »
Soooo since the last performance just ended,  is this thread
1) turning into  JS
2) being merged with the ethics thread 
3) going to be deleted

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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #36 on: December 29, 2016, 08:15:31 PM »
Soooo since the last performance just ended,  is this thread
1) turning into  JS
2) being merged with the ethics thread 
3) going to be deleted
Definitely stocks

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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #37 on: December 29, 2016, 09:23:19 PM »
This is not a working guy vs learning guy thing.

If you can relate to the sign and it's message then it is addressed to you.

If you can't, then just ignore it and move on. It's not for you.

If you see this sign and for some reason it bothers you, irks you, makes you feel guilty, resentful or worthless. You should analyze why it is that you are feeling this way:
If it's because you realize that you are so far removed from the yeshiva world and yeshivalite that you can't even relate... Then these feelings should be channeled for good. - Take it as a wake up call.

If you still can't deal with the fact that you can't relate, and feel the need to delegitimize, and demean the message and it's messengers, you're sadly pretty lost. Good luck!
Like well said!

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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #38 on: December 29, 2016, 10:04:35 PM »
All I know is that I went to a chanuka party and everyone there told me that it's assur to go there.
And I'm not in yeshiva. So whoever was behind this campaign failed miserably.
Or the people who told you it was assur failed miserably.

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Re: 10 Tickets to "Zman" play "Zusman" on Wed. for sale.
« Reply #39 on: December 30, 2016, 03:53:38 AM »
This is not a working guy vs learning guy thing.

If you can relate to the sign and it's message then it is addressed to you.

If you can't, then just ignore it and move on. It's not for you.

If you see this sign and for some reason it bothers you, irks you, makes you feel guilty, resentful or worthless. You should analyze why it is that you are feeling this way:
If it's because you realize that you are so far removed from the yeshiva world and yeshivalite that you can't even relate... Then these feelings should be channeled for good. - Take it as a wake up call.

If you still can't deal with the fact that you can't relate, and feel the need to delegitimize, and demean the message and it's messengers, you're sadly pretty lost. Good luck!
Sheker isn't a way to bring about a message. There's nothing wrong (usually) with chumras. It's when they masquerade as halacha that the issues start. The aveira that likely had the greatest impact on the world, the first aveira to ever be done, came about precisely because of this issue.