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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #135 on: January 08, 2017, 08:11:37 PM »
Halacha is both rigid and flexible. There are plenty of things that were repealed or scaled down because they were too difficult.

http://www.aishdas.org/avodah/faxes/RYE_pilegesh.pdf


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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #136 on: January 08, 2017, 08:14:38 PM »
Halacha is both rigid and flexible. There are plenty of things that were repealed or scaled down because they were too difficult.

http://www.aishdas.org/avodah/faxes/RYE_pilegesh.pdf
way too long can you be more specific in what you are taking out of this ruling?
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #137 on: January 08, 2017, 08:19:56 PM »
Didn't read the entire article yet or any of this thread but they lost me once "David" accuses anyone who doesnt agree with him and has a positive view of t"m as faking.
Don't waste your time that article wasn't worth a millisecond of anyone here's time

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #138 on: January 08, 2017, 08:22:43 PM »
So, anyone else have experience with this 🙈
http://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/ask-the-expert-using-the-ocean-as-a-mikveh

Or do you cancel the trip if mikvah night interferes with a planned trip?
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #139 on: January 08, 2017, 08:29:39 PM »
So, anyone else have experience with this 🙈
http://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/ask-the-expert-using-the-ocean-as-a-mikveh

Or do you cancel the trip if mikvah night interferes with a planned trip?
if you can't watch your wife go would you let her swim in a river alone?
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #140 on: January 08, 2017, 08:30:40 PM »
if you can't watch your wife go would you let her swim in a river alone?
It's obviously an AYLOR situation for what exactly to do. Just curious what people have done when it comes up.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #141 on: January 08, 2017, 08:33:14 PM »
if you can't watch your wife go would you let her swim in a river alone?
You can watch if no one else around.
If you don't care why would you comment?
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #142 on: January 08, 2017, 08:33:20 PM »
So, anyone else have experience with this 🙈
http://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/ask-the-expert-using-the-ocean-as-a-mikveh

Definitely an AYLOR moment. I know that one of the concerns is that a it may be rushed, (because of fear of being seen or cold) and therefore she may not be careful to toivel completely.

Also, with all due respect to Rebbetzin Shusterman, taking a swim before sounds like asking for a chatzitza.

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #143 on: January 08, 2017, 08:34:30 PM »
It's obviously an AYLOR situation. Just curious what people have done when it comes up.
Been there done that.
Was is a camp for the summer many years ago and the closest mik was well over an hour away. Rabbi said to use the lake.

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #144 on: January 08, 2017, 08:37:10 PM »
if you can't watch your wife go would you let her swim in a river alone?
She needs to be with someone. According to many of the is no choice it can be her husband.
You have the right to remain silent. Anything you say can and will be used to start a religious discussion.

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #145 on: January 08, 2017, 08:37:53 PM »
I think a lot of people would benefit from knowing what's permitted AL pi halacha and what's just being more machmir etc.   You'd have less people completely throwing it all away and for those struggling to the degree of those in the article it could help their yiddeshkeit a lot IMO.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #146 on: January 08, 2017, 08:39:48 PM »
I think a lot of people would benefit from knowing what's permitted AL pi halacha and what's just being more machmir etc.   You'd have less people completely throwing it all away and for those struggling to the degree of those in the article it could help their yiddeshkeit a lot IMO.

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #147 on: January 08, 2017, 08:42:49 PM »
Seems like everyone has the same soundbite.
Yes, it's arguably better longterm for the relationship. It doesn't mean that it doesn't make things more difficult in the short term.
That soundbite also over generalizes touching as being only sexual. Touching can be an effective way to show compassion, empathy etc. We lose out on that opportunity during Nedah.

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #148 on: January 08, 2017, 08:46:53 PM »
I think a lot of people would benefit from knowing what's permitted AL pi halacha and what's just being more machmir etc.   You'd have less people completely throwing it all away and for those struggling to the degree of those in the article it could help their yiddeshkeit a lot IMO.
Why do I always find that I agree with every comment of yours ,


I totally agree with your observation & your previous comment in this thread

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #149 on: January 08, 2017, 08:48:04 PM »
Btw can anyone explain the logic in not being able to hand over a baby to the wife when she's a niddah