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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #270 on: January 11, 2017, 04:28:38 PM »
I know a couple who asked their LOR about delaying going to the mikva for a few days for birth control reasons.  They were told it doesn't require a sha'ala if both agree.
(I realize technically there is a difference between going and abstaining vs not going until they are ready.)
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #271 on: January 11, 2017, 05:01:52 PM »
I know a couple who asked their LOR about delaying going to the mikva for a few days for birth control reasons.  They were told it doesn't require a sha'ala if both agree.
(I realize technically there is a difference between going and abstaining vs not going until they are ready.)
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #272 on: January 11, 2017, 05:48:46 PM »
I know a couple who asked their LOR about delaying going to the mikva for a few days for birth control reasons.  They were told it doesn't require a sha'ala if both agree.
(I realize technically there is a difference between going and abstaining vs not going until they are ready.)

The question is if טבילה בזמנו מצוה or not. (Regardless of what happens after)
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #273 on: January 11, 2017, 06:09:48 PM »
The question is if טבילה בזמנו מצוה or not. (Regardless of what happens after)
depends on what you consider טבילה בזמנו מצוה
according to the Gem. Niddah 28 if it was a "real" mitzva there would be a chiyuv that would have them go regardless of what happens after ie. like on YK etc.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #274 on: January 11, 2017, 11:06:47 PM »

I think there is something for everyone to take away from the article.
One, it does help bring about the opportunity to discuss what the "average" religious person feels about the laws and how they can sometimes be inconvenient or not ideal etc etc.

And two what we can do to help those who are in situations where these laws are causing major problems in their yiddeshkeit and in their lives.



From my own personal discussions with friends, and many others I find that there are many people who really love all the laws, many who are just fine with the laws and see the good and bad and then those who it really causes major problems in their lives for whatever reason.


I'd say the majority of people I know fall into that middle group but that doesn't mean there aren't plenty of people who don't fall into the first or last.




And while it could be the average joe isn't struggling with these laws I'd say like many other areas as well there are enough who are for it to warrant a discussion.
Wasn't commenting on the worthiness of this conversation I was However commenting on the worthiness of the article

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #275 on: January 12, 2017, 01:22:40 AM »
Wasn't commenting on the worthiness of this conversation I was However commenting on the worthiness of the article
That article, like almost anything put out, it useless, baseless, and false.

We have DJT exposing the media for what they are in the US, and
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if you're following the latest media (yediot, mozes, et al) coming out of Israel.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #277 on: October 07, 2019, 06:30:35 PM »
That was pretty good. Not accurate but interesting view.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #278 on: October 10, 2019, 11:00:10 AM »
That was pretty good. Not accurate but interesting view.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #279 on: October 10, 2019, 01:07:43 PM »
how would you know?
Because he simplified marriage to 2 types, that's obviously a gross exaggeration and not true.
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