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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #21 on: January 08, 2017, 03:12:01 PM »
They also need to see a shrink  :-*
Not sure why you would say that.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #22 on: January 08, 2017, 03:12:33 PM »
I think part of the problem is the overemphasis of the "good for your marriage" idea. We don't keep TM because of the benefits, just like we don't eat only kosher because it's "cleaner"
True. But I do think most frum Jews do believe that TM is helpful overall to the health of their marriage just like they believe that Shabbos is good for their sanity.
At least I do.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #23 on: January 08, 2017, 03:12:49 PM »
Not sure why you would say that.
Try out TM and get back to me.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #24 on: January 08, 2017, 03:13:56 PM »
Try out TM and get back to me.

lol. i think JTZ's wife might ban him from here before JTZ does it to himself

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #25 on: January 08, 2017, 03:16:43 PM »
lol. i think JTZ's wife might ban him from here before JTZ does it to himself
This isn't PC material it is just plain funny. The misconceptions some of you have.  :)
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« Reply #26 on: January 08, 2017, 03:17:44 PM »
This isn't PC material it is just plain funny. The misconceptions some of you have.  :)

one day ill come to a DO and you can enlighten me.

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Re: Interesting Articles...
« Reply #27 on: January 08, 2017, 03:18:12 PM »
This isn't PC material it is just plain funny. The misconceptions some of you have.  :)

You're a woman? :o

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #28 on: January 08, 2017, 03:18:41 PM »
This isn't PC material it is just plain funny. The misconceptions some of you have.  :)
Enlighten us.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #30 on: January 08, 2017, 03:32:33 PM »
http://messageinabottle-cs.blogspot.com/2013/04/the-jelly-bean-jar-theory-of-marriage.html
Meh.

12-14 days of no touching means that there is always a healthy desire when it's over. That's why I do think that TM is healthy for marriage. Doesn't mean it's not a challenge or hard at times though.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #31 on: January 08, 2017, 03:34:15 PM »
12-14 days of no touching means that there is always a healthy desire when it's over.
You will get over it, just wait.  :)
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #32 on: January 08, 2017, 03:35:03 PM »
You will get over it, just wait.  :)
Yes or no, have you ever gone 12-14 days without so much as a touch?
Care to try?
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #33 on: January 08, 2017, 03:36:00 PM »
Yes or no, have you ever gone 12-14 days without so much as a touch?
Care to try?
Tons of times.
You probably mean when we are both home?
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #34 on: January 08, 2017, 03:42:04 PM »
Tons of times.
You probably mean when we are both home?
Indeed.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #35 on: January 08, 2017, 03:44:52 PM »
I think part of the problem is the overemphasis of the "good for your marriage" idea. We don't keep TM because of the benefits, just like we don't eat only kosher because it's "cleaner"
I second this. definitely has its fair share of frustrations (think botched honeymoon) but overall, despite it being a halachic no-other-option, it definitely does something to reignite. how many of us haven't gone weeks during pregnancy without...
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #36 on: January 08, 2017, 03:45:15 PM »
Indeed.
A lot of times with no real physical contact (hugging/kissing/ect). Actually not touching like when handing something to her/me I can't really say.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #37 on: January 08, 2017, 03:45:25 PM »
תניא היה ר"מ אומר

מפני מה אמרה תורה נדה לשבעה

מפני שרגיל בה וקץ בה

אמרה תורה

תהא טמאה שבעה ימים כדי שתהא חביבה על בעלה כשעת כניסתה לחופה

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #38 on: January 08, 2017, 03:45:50 PM »
"LESS IS MORE" It is the cumulative effect that kills deals!!! How many times do I have to say this?  >:(

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #39 on: January 08, 2017, 03:46:48 PM »
I second this. definitely has its fair share of frustrations (think botched honeymoon) but overall, despite it being a halachic no-other-option, it definitely does something to reignite. how many of us haven't gone weeks during pregnancy without...
Don't even get me started on botched vacations  :-*
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