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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #40 on: January 08, 2017, 03:47:17 PM »
A lot of times with no real physical contact (hugging/kissing/ect). Actually not touching like when handing something to her/me I can't really say.
When you try 12-14 days with zero touching period, while in the same city, let us know :)
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #41 on: January 08, 2017, 03:47:47 PM »
Ouch!!!
indeed. if you would only know the ramifications other than in the bedroom...
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #42 on: January 08, 2017, 03:48:32 PM »
Don't even get me started on botched vacations  :-*
we should start a "war stories" thread
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #43 on: January 08, 2017, 03:48:43 PM »
Ouch!!!
What about botched wedding night?
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #44 on: January 08, 2017, 03:48:46 PM »
תניא היה ר"מ אומר

מפני מה אמרה תורה נדה לשבעה

מפני שרגיל בה וקץ בה

אמרה תורה

תהא טמאה שבעה ימים כדי שתהא חביבה על בעלה כשעת כניסתה לחופה
I think part of the problem is the overemphasis of the "good for your marriage" idea. We don't keep TM because of the benefits, just like we don't eat only kosher because it's "cleaner"
True. But I do think most frum Jews do believe that TM is helpful overall to the health of their marriage just like they believe that Shabbos is good for their sanity.
At least I do.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #45 on: January 08, 2017, 03:48:50 PM »
On average how many days per month is it allowed? You can't time it for honeymoon/vacation/special occasions?
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #46 on: January 08, 2017, 03:49:21 PM »
we should start a "war stories" thread
Need to lock it from the single folk :D
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #47 on: January 08, 2017, 03:50:12 PM »
On average how many days per month is it allowed? You can't time it for honeymoon/vacation/special occasions?
on average 14 sometimes little less sometimes way more but its complicated. flying sometimes causes staining.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #48 on: January 08, 2017, 03:50:35 PM »
When you try 12-14 days with zero touching period, while in the same city, let us know :)
100% serious here. It would not be a big deal.
Is the biggest hurdle that you touch by accident?
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #49 on: January 08, 2017, 03:50:58 PM »
Need to lock it from the single folk :D
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #50 on: January 08, 2017, 03:51:52 PM »
we should start a "war stories" thread
You're welcome to share here if you want.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #51 on: January 08, 2017, 03:53:35 PM »
Can you imagine how much less entertaining this would be without JTZ here?
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #53 on: January 08, 2017, 03:55:21 PM »
Can you imagine how much less entertaining this would be without JTZ here?
Also, JTZ -do you realize that for some here you are there main interaction with the non Jewish world? That's a serious weight to bear
I look at it as the DDF whipping boy. You can take all your frustrations out on me.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #54 on: January 08, 2017, 03:56:33 PM »
100% serious here. It would not be a big deal.
Is the biggest hurdle that you touch by accident?
The biggest hurdle for me is
But I do agree that disagreements had during the ~12 days that would be far smoother with just the ability to touch each other.

It's not that it's a big deal, but after 12-14 days of no physical contact, it's still something that's quite special even many years into a marriage.

it definitely does something to reignite. how many of us haven't gone weeks during pregnancy without...
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #55 on: January 08, 2017, 03:57:50 PM »
Can you imagine how much less entertaining this would be without JTZ here?
Also, JTZ -do you realize that for some here you are there main interaction with the non Jewish world? That's a serious weight to bear
I don't know the main interaction in general, but quite possibly their main interaction in discussing these matters.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #56 on: January 08, 2017, 03:58:43 PM »
Can you imagine how much less entertaining this would be without JTZ here?
Also, JTZ -do you realize that for some here you are there main interaction with the non Jewish world? That's a serious weight to bear
So true.

I don't know the main interaction in general, but quite possibly their main interaction in discussing these matters.
I'd believe main interaction in general for the majority of DDFers.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #57 on: January 08, 2017, 03:59:29 PM »
It's not that it's a big deal, but after 12-14 days it's still something that's quite special even many years into a marriage.
Hopefully that will never end. If it doesn't you are one lucky/special couple.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #58 on: January 08, 2017, 03:59:47 PM »


You can't time it for honeymoon/vacation/special occasions?
Technically you can if needed.

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #59 on: January 08, 2017, 04:00:01 PM »


I'd believe main interaction in general for the majority of DDFers.
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