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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #2 on: January 08, 2017, 02:37:36 PM »
Stupid article.  What's the point of even discussing it?
For starters there are parts that I think are true.
I do think that T"M is definitely good for the marriage.
But I do agree that disagreements had during the ~12 days that would be far smoother with just the ability to touch each other.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #4 on: January 08, 2017, 02:46:14 PM »
Maybe we should discuss a 17 year old marrying a 14 year old...???
That's part of the PC as well...
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #5 on: January 08, 2017, 02:47:23 PM »
Maybe we should discuss a 17 year old marrying a 14 year old...???
LOL!!!
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #6 on: January 08, 2017, 02:48:46 PM »
LOL!!!
Give a holler if this article is discussed.
What are we doing now?
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #7 on: January 08, 2017, 02:51:13 PM »
What are we doing now?
You never told me about the bolded part.

When the woman has stopped menstruating, and counted seven “clean” days that must be scrupulously checked, she immerses in the mikveh, and that night sex is obligatory.

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #8 on: January 08, 2017, 02:52:40 PM »
I want to call a yizkor right now...kinder arois!!!
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #9 on: January 08, 2017, 02:54:22 PM »
You never told me about the bolded part.

When the woman has stopped menstruating, and counted seven “clean” days that must be scrupulously checked, she immerses in the mikveh, and that night sex is obligatory.

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its not obligatory.

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #12 on: January 08, 2017, 02:59:33 PM »
For starters there are parts that I think are true.
I do think that T"M is definitely good for the marriage.
But I do agree that disagreements had during the ~12 days that would be far smoother with just the ability to touch each other.

Halacha is Halacha. What can you do?

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #13 on: January 08, 2017, 03:00:51 PM »
its not obligatory.
Might not be "obligatory" but I'm sure greater than 99% do.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #14 on: January 08, 2017, 03:01:58 PM »
Halacha is Halacha. What can you do?
Nothing at all. Just a discussion.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #15 on: January 08, 2017, 03:02:35 PM »
You never told me about the bolded part.

When the woman has stopped menstruating, and counted seven “clean” days that must be scrupulously checked, she immerses in the mikveh, and that night sex is obligatory.

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #16 on: January 08, 2017, 03:06:41 PM »
Might not be "obligatory" but I'm sure greater than 99% do.

if people are saying it "wrecks everything" they need to ask a shaila.

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #17 on: January 08, 2017, 03:08:05 PM »
if people are saying it "wrecks everything" they need to ask a shaila.
They also need to see a shrink  :-*
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #18 on: January 08, 2017, 03:08:12 PM »
I want to call a yizkor right now...kinder arois!!!
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #19 on: January 08, 2017, 03:08:44 PM »
I think part of the problem is the overemphasis of the "good for your marriage" idea. We don't keep TM because of the benefits, just like we don't eat only kosher because it's "cleaner"