Also the average couple between pregnancies and birth control don't have it too often. (Unless you have a stringent Rabbi)
Some say you can use a stick
On the other hand it is assur to hit her then too
It's only assur derech chiba...
AP dead or Obi dead?
Didn't read the entire article yet or any of this thread but they lost me once "David" accuses anyone who doesnt agree with him and has a positive view of t"m as faking.
That's just typical liberalism.
Also the average couple between pregnancies and pregnant right after nursing don't have it too often.
(I think the PC is slowing down...)
No 12 days?
But I do agree that disagreements had during the ~12 days that would be far smoother with just the ability to touch each other.
I could change that but this subject just doesn't feel right.
if people are saying it "wrecks everything" they need to ask a shaila.
They also need to see a shrink
I think part of the problem is the overemphasis of the "good for your marriage" idea. We don't keep TM because of the benefits, just like we don't eat only kosher because it's "cleaner"
-1It forces you to work on the relationship without using touch as a crutch.
Halacha is both rigid and flexible. There are plenty of things that were repealed or scaled down because they were too difficult.http://www.aishdas.org/avodah/faxes/RYE_pilegesh.pdf
So, anyone else have experience with this 🙈http://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/ask-the-expert-using-the-ocean-as-a-mikvehOr do you cancel the trip if mikvah night interferes with a planned trip?