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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #285 on: July 10, 2020, 01:39:26 PM »
Where did he say waiting is preferred to ocean?
Some people always have beach destinations in their minds :)

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #286 on: July 10, 2020, 01:45:20 PM »
Where did he say waiting is preferred to ocean?

Rereading his post, I see it's not so clear he meant that, but I assumed it Bec he quoted ur post about going in the ocean
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #287 on: July 10, 2020, 01:45:37 PM »
Some people always have beach destinations in their minds :)

Definitely true
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #288 on: July 10, 2020, 01:48:35 PM »
Some people always have beach destinations in their minds :)
Read my mind there, prob 60% of my vacations are at beaches, oceans.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #289 on: July 10, 2020, 01:49:35 PM »
Wow. Two hour flight is quite a trip for a mik. And I'm surprised that waiting is preferred to ocean mik
Yup he told me rather not go at all than go in the ocean, i dont remember the reason.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #290 on: July 10, 2020, 01:50:57 PM »
Wow. Two hour flight is quite a trip for a mik. And I'm surprised that waiting is preferred to ocean mik
We went for 3 weeks, and we stayed in a few diff islands only 1 had a "kosher" mik so we ended flying there stayed for the night and flew back,
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #291 on: July 10, 2020, 01:53:24 PM »
If you're not using BC, I'd be surprised at a psak to delay mikvah over using the ocean.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #292 on: July 10, 2020, 03:02:44 PM »
If you're not using BC, I'd be surprised at a psak to delay mikvah over using the ocean.

Why would you be surprised? Did you ask your LOR and get a different answer?
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #293 on: July 10, 2020, 03:18:20 PM »
Why would you be surprised? Did you ask your LOR and get a different answer?
Indeed. And he's an expert in these halachos.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #294 on: July 10, 2020, 03:30:09 PM »
Indeed. And he's an expert in these halachos.

I'm sure he is.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #295 on: July 12, 2020, 09:24:59 PM »
i wouldnt go on vaca if it wasnt in yemei tahara. actually recently cancelled trip for this reason. i dont have enough vaca days to waste them on a bedieved vacation.
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #296 on: July 12, 2020, 09:53:00 PM »
i wouldnt go on vaca if it wasnt in yemei tahara. actually recently cancelled trip for this reason. i dont have enough vaca days to waste them on a bedieved vacation.
You planned an awesome trip to MLE and 11 days before the trip comes rebbetzin flo.
You can't change the dates or get all the awards lined up again.

Do you cancel the trip or ask your LOR about using the ocean on night 1?
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #297 on: July 12, 2020, 10:00:49 PM »
You planned an awesome trip to MLE and 11 days before the trip comes rebbetzin flo.
You can't change the dates or get all the awards lined up again.

Do you cancel the trip or ask your LOR about using the ocean on night 1?
On the topic of the ocean, a Rav once told me he'd rather have a woman go during day 8 than going to a dark ocean at night.

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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #298 on: July 12, 2020, 10:22:29 PM »
On the topic of the ocean, a Rav once told me he'd rather have a woman go during day 8 than going to a dark ocean at night.
Rather?
Is that a psak?
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Re: Taharas Hamishpacha Article Discussion For The Married Folk...
« Reply #299 on: July 12, 2020, 10:28:48 PM »
Rather?
Is that a psak?
He was nervous for her safety.
Definitely not a psak.