Author Topic: What's something people do for or on pesach that a Rav told you u don't have to?  (Read 8846 times)

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I just think it's sad how many women have negative feelings towards the holidays. Poor Pesach has earned such a bad rap and for no good reason.  We're doing it to ourselves. Can't imagine the reaction of "oh Gd, Pesach is coming" is what Hashem had in mind about all this.
Pesach is a favorite at our home. A week with no commercially produced food. Schmaltz rather than oil (for some real flavor). No wine limits for the kids. And אחרון של פסח specials.
I've been waiting over 5 years with bated breath for someone to say that!
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Some kashrus agencies say all perfume, cologne and deodorant with denatured Alcohol is a problem. Some say all are a problem. The OU says all are fine

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Some kashrus agencies say all perfume, cologne and deodorant with denatured Alcohol is a problem. Some say all are a problem. The OU says all are fine
בד"ץ עדה החרדית ירושלים has a מאושר emblem for all those items that don't require השגחה but get it for marketing purposes.
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Some kashrus agencies say all perfume, cologne and deodorant with denatured Alcohol is a problem. Some say all are a problem. The OU says all are fine
Ever fed deodorant to a dog?
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I just think it's sad how many women have negative feelings towards the holidays. Poor Pesach has earned such a bad rap and for no good reason.  We're doing it to ourselves. Can't imagine the reaction of "oh Gd, Pesach is coming" is what Hashem had in mind about all this.
Do men have negative feelings towards succos?

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Do men have negative feelings towards succos?

Sure, sometimes. But women tend to have more work to do during the holidays in general I think.
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Do men have negative feelings towards succos?
It's much easier to put up a most sukkahs than to clean a standard kitchen for pesach.
Who do you think you are fooling? You think you are going to pull a quick one on your Creator? Good luck with that.
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Family shopped in bingo earlier. there was a guy shopping with gloves and windexed the conveyor belt before putting his stuff on there to pay.

Got video to prove it 🙄

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Family shopped in bingo earlier. there was a guy shopping with gloves and windexed the conveyor belt before putting his stuff on there to pay.

Got video to prove it 🙄
I once saw a woman who brought a white sheet to line her shopping cart and a towel to wipe each item before she put it down.
She also took bags and was placing them into the bags right away.
« Last Edit: March 26, 2017, 10:48:30 PM by aygart »
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Family shopped in bingo earlier. there was a guy shopping with gloves and windexed the conveyor belt before putting his stuff on there to pay.

Got video to prove it 🙄
Lakewood all have separate isles with cover for pesach stuff

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Lakewood all have separate isles with cover for pesach stuff
Competition over the OCD market.
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Family shopped in bingo earlier. there was a guy shopping with gloves and windexed the conveyor belt before putting his stuff on there to pay.

Got video to prove it 🙄

Many machmirim don't put down pesach things on a chametzdig surface.

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Many machmirim don't put down pesach things on a chametzdig surface.
How about the bag that the package is in?
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Humans used to not have so many things (to clean).
Now we own so much stuff that it takes forever if you want to clean everything spotless.
That's where the mistake is.  Spotless is not the goal - removal of chomoetz is.
I had my first baby Purim time, so I told my husband we'd just sleep by my parents (walking distance) for Pesach, since I couldn't clean.  He taught me what REAL Peasch cleaning is - except for preparing the kitchen for cooking. 
He took all the (folded) clothing out of the armoir, checked between the folds and put it all back. (folded badly and in the wrong places) He rearranged everything I had on any surface. He vacuumed the couch and all the floors. He washed the kitchen floor, counters and sink.  He taped some newspaper on the counters, some foil in the sink, and declared us Pesachdig.
(In later years he learned to like my mother. :D )
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Family shopped in bingo earlier. there was a guy shopping with gloves and windexed the conveyor belt before putting his stuff on there to pay.

Got video to prove it 🙄
post it

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That's alright. We believe him.
That's irrelevant, we still want to watch it for the fun, and in order to share with some poor souls that aren't on DDF.
I've been waiting over 5 years with bated breath for someone to say that!
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That's irrelevant, we still want to watch it for the fun, and in order to share with some poor souls that aren't on DDF.
Have rachmanus on the poor guy. living with these psychological issues is bad enough. You don't need to make embarrass him too.
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