I'm kind of annoyed about the hotel's response.
"Sometimes when large groups stay at the hotel, they are not completely honest with their agenda."
Sounds like the hotel was ok with most of it. They had sold a lot of rooms, and were willing to let them have the pool and club, etc., and didn't care to discipline their guests kids.
Exactly what agenda are we talking about here? The guy who wrote in was a bigot, and was bothered that they were different, wore fur hats, and black coats. What does it bother him if they use a foreman in the room? Perhaps the hotel has a rule, but it's not his business.
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Such responses incline me to be even more the way I am - to Davke wear the hat! - it's just too bad on him if he doesn't like it. If he wants he can move to Iran or Pakistan; there he can be assure that only certain customs are acceptable. Ubkitzur: go to H...!
What ever happened to making a kiddush Hashem? This sounds like this group of very noticeably frum yidden did a great job of making a chilul Hashem. Whether you agree with this individuals perception or not, there is an accepted social norm that when you go to hotels you act polite and courteous and in ways that will not be intrusive or disturbing to other guests. Kids should not be running through the hallways, everyone in the hotel hallways should not have to smell your cholent pots all weekend, etc.... People have to realize that just because they paid for the room for the night does not mean that they can now act as if it is their home and they own the place!! I do agree that if the hotel was ok with them using the pool as a mikveh then the other guest has no tayna but I would say it is a likely possibility that they were 100% open with the hotel as to their intentions and they maybe the hotel would not have been "so accomadating" had they been which the hotel definitely have the right to do. It would be very reasonable for the hotel to be against using their pool as a mikveh. Saying that you will do things your way just to spite everyone else sounds like a very "un-kosher" perspective because our true job in this world is to serve Hashem in the best way that will be mikadesh shem shamayim. Just my 2 cents...