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Re: Hairgate
« Reply #180 on: September 06, 2017, 12:35:50 AM »
What's your definition of tznuis? Is a woman allowed to dress in a way that attracts men?
He believes that women should be allowed to walk around in bikinis because frum men should learn how to control themselves. Did I miss anything?

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Re: Hairgate
« Reply #181 on: September 06, 2017, 07:29:11 AM »
He believes that women should be allowed to walk around in bikinis because frum men should learn how to control themselves. Did I miss anything?
Thank you for sharing your fantasies, but that is not what i said or meant. There is a bit of a stretch between telling pre-teen girls that their hair must be shoulder length because men will eventually be attracted to your hair and walking around in a bikini. Chinuch absolutely demands that we train the girls to dress tznius so that they will have those boundaries when they grow older. But nitpicking (and i dont mean the process that lead to the video in question) over a 10 year old girl's length of hair WITH A RULER is too far IMHO. I believe that it is not a man's place to tell a woman that her [fill in the blank] is not appropriate because I cant control myself and you're causing me to [fill in the blank].
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Re: Hairgate
« Reply #182 on: September 06, 2017, 08:43:04 AM »
Thank you for sharing your fantasies, but that is not what i said or meant. There is a bit of a stretch between telling pre-teen girls that their hair must be shoulder length because men will eventually be attracted to your hair and walking around in a bikini. Chinuch absolutely demands that we train the girls to dress tznius so that they will have those boundaries when they grow older. But nitpicking (and i dont mean the process that lead to the video in question) over a 10 year old girl's length of hair WITH A RULER is too far IMHO. I believe that it is not a man's place to tell a woman that her [fill in the blank] is not appropriate because I cant control myself and you're causing me to [fill in the blank].
What you claim happened has been debunked.

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Re: Hairgate
« Reply #183 on: September 06, 2017, 09:09:11 AM »
What you claim happened has been debunked.

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Because ome person said it was the mother who did it?

I agree lets move on to th next...sick perversion of what halacha requires that is.
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Re: Hairgate
« Reply #184 on: September 06, 2017, 10:06:56 AM »

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Re: Hairgate
« Reply #185 on: September 06, 2017, 11:48:40 AM »
Because ome person said it was the mother who did it?

I agree lets move on to th next...sick perversion of what halacha requires that is.
as judged by laymen against those well versed in halacha.
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Re: Hairgate
« Reply #186 on: September 06, 2017, 11:52:00 AM »
as judged by laymen against those well versed in halacha.
Right.
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Re: Hairgate
« Reply #187 on: September 06, 2017, 11:57:07 AM »
as judged by laymen against those well versed in halacha.


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Re: Hairgate
« Reply #188 on: September 06, 2017, 11:58:32 AM »
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