He believes that women should be allowed to walk around in bikinis because frum men should learn how to control themselves. Did I miss anything?
Thank you for sharing your fantasies, but that is not what i said or meant. There is a bit of a stretch between telling pre-teen girls that their hair must be shoulder length because men will eventually be attracted to your hair and walking around in a bikini. Chinuch absolutely demands that we train the girls to dress tznius so that they will have those boundaries when they grow older. But nitpicking (and i dont mean the process that lead to the video in question) over a 10 year old girl's length of hair WITH A RULER is too far IMHO. I believe that it is not a man's place to tell a woman that her [fill in the blank] is not appropriate because I cant control myself and you're causing me to [fill in the blank].