Why do some Jewish communities prohibit women from driving?

[FlyFirst]

When leaving causes you to lose out on friends, and family it's not really an easy option.

It's a choice, but not really.

That's a problem that everyone has when leaving his circle he grew up at.

[Shkop]

I don't think so, can you point me out one example? I'd rather say just the opposite, things that used to be unacceptable are slowly starting to get לכתחילה

You seem to be talking about general trends

Because these takanos are slowly starting to creep into other communities and become the 'basic standard' instead of takanos.

This seems to be referring to specific cases. The example given is women not being allowed to drive.  Is the above point accurate?

[mgarfin]

Hmm. What if I wear colored shirts but my wife doesn't have a long sheitel? Is there a school for that?

Probably

You can knock your head on the wall and scream no one wants to accept my children!

[mgarfin]

Hmm. What if I wear colored shirts but my wife doesn't have a long sheitel? Is there a school for that?

Take yourself as an example, do you think everyone wants their kids to be exposed to your type of family (for the good and the bad)!
Even in your CLE, you have 3 types/levels of schools. Watch CLE grow and it will get more and more refined schools.

We can argue the benefit of ALL kids in the same school but will have a hard time drawing the line.

[churnbabychurn]

It's nice that you think that but there are plenty of communities that are more polarized.

For eg? Monsey maybe. Otherwise the modern orthodox ones are usually very restrictive and unaccepting of chassidim or yeshivish.
That leaves us with out of town and Israel...

[churnbabychurn]

Mild anti-semitism aside, that was bizarre. Not surprised though

Bizarre maybe to you. What do you know of lakwood?

[sky121]

That's a problem that everyone has when leaving his circle he grew up at.

It's worse the more "religious" you are.

Actually even that isn't 100 percent true always.

Chassidish kids tend to get kicked out and less accepted more than say a sephardi kid who also leaves.

Meanwhile that's in regards more to those that live religion altogether.

I'm speaking of those who may want to do things a shtickle different well within what halacha allows.

[Dan]

Take yourself as an example, do you think everyone wants their kids to be exposed to your type of family (for the good and the bad)!
Even in your CLE, you have 3 types/levels of schools. Watch CLE grow and it will get more and more refined schools.

We can argue the benefit of ALL kids in the same school but will have a hard time drawing the line.

Keep your NY stuff in NY please. People here don't deal in that nonsense.

[aygart]

Keep your NY stuff in NY please. People here don't deal in that nonsense.

for now.

[Dan]

That's what scares me.
Nobody could care less right now. OOT is nice like that.

[mgarfin]

Keep your NY stuff in NY please. People here don't deal in that nonsense.

Has nothing to do with NY or CLE has all to do with the size of community and luxury to pick and choose.

[Dan]

Maybe. Maybe not.

[Shkop]

For eg? Monsey maybe. Otherwise the modern orthodox ones are usually very restrictive and unaccepting of chassidim or yeshivish.
That leaves us with out of town and Israel...

OK. So even in your skewed worldview, we have Monsey, Out of Town and Israel. Totally. Israel is just a tiny little place anyway so we won't count them. And out of town...another small insignificant place, right?

[Shkop]

Bizarre maybe to you. What do you know of lakwood?

Probably more than you considering that even your logical comments are often contradictory

[Shkop]

Take yourself as an example, do you think everyone wants their kids to be exposed to your type of family (for the good and the bad)!
Even in your CLE, you have 3 types/levels of schools. Watch CLE grow and it will get more and more refined schools.

We can argue the benefit of ALL kids in the same school but will have a hard time drawing the line.

That was condescending. I think people wouldn't want their kids to be exposed to your type of family so they don't learn bad middos.

[yelped]

Take yourself as an example, do you think everyone wants their kids to be exposed to your type of family (for the good and the bad)!
Even in your CLE, you have 3 types/levels of schools. Watch CLE grow and it will get more and more refined schools.

We can argue the benefit of ALL kids in the same school but will have a hard time drawing the line.

Woah. Where did that come from? What kind of nonsense is that?

[username]

I definitely dont want my kid coming home and asking to go to MLE or BOB for a shabbos vacation just like a kid in class went. And wants to go upstairs on a 747, and sit in the cockpit.

 

/jk

[mgarfin]

Woah. Where did that come from? What kind of nonsense is that?

You can knock your head on the wall and scream no one wants to accept my children!

Don't be in denial that the hardest cases.

[Shkop]

Don't be in denial that the hardest cases.

coherence is a virtue

[a good yeshiva bachur]

I definitely dont want my kid coming home and asking to go to MLE or BOB for a shabbos vacation just like a kid in class went. And wants to go upstairs on a 747, and sit in the cockpit.

 

/jk

I would want to be that kid in the class who went...