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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #180 on: February 23, 2018, 01:26:03 PM »
That's because they aren't taught to be able to

I dont think teaching kids how to fight is the answer

I agree that self defense classes can help with self-esteem if that is what you meant

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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #181 on: February 23, 2018, 01:28:00 PM »
I dont think teaching kids how to fight is the answer

I agree that self defense classes can help with self-esteem if that is what you meant
It's not about how to fight, it's how to stand up for themselves,
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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #182 on: February 23, 2018, 01:28:36 PM »
I just want to point out the irony of what's going on on this thread
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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #183 on: February 23, 2018, 01:28:43 PM »
Once, as a teenager I called a nationally syndicated radio talk show host and he made fun of me on the air.. but he's a douche bag

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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #184 on: February 23, 2018, 01:34:18 PM »
Once, as a teenager I called a nationally syndicated radio talk show host and he made fun of me on the air.. but he's a douche bag
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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #185 on: February 23, 2018, 01:42:20 PM »
I just want to point out the irony of what's going on on this thread
Sad you need to point it out.
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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #186 on: February 23, 2018, 02:19:48 PM »
Sad you need to point it out.
And the irony of you saying that.
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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #187 on: February 23, 2018, 02:22:17 PM »
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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #188 on: February 23, 2018, 02:25:27 PM »
kumbaya...

Oh I forgot, you wouldnt know what that is.
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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #189 on: February 23, 2018, 02:50:48 PM »
+1. I'd be surprised if this kid and his classmates were all on social media at 11. And if they were, whatever part it may have contributed to this tragedy is definitely on all of the parents - no matter how hard one might think keeping them away from it is.

regardless of the circumstances if he was bullied or if he was doing the bullying, did the school actually send him home in the middle of the day without an adult either walking/driving him home, or called to the office with a parent first to discuss the situation?
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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #190 on: February 23, 2018, 03:07:35 PM »
I remember hearing about people who passed in my community and only in my adult years did I found out they committed suicide. And my parents both have stories from when they were younger of people in their hometowns who had committed suicide but it wasn't spoken about openly at all.

I recently found out why so many people died from an
aneurysm when I was young. I was actually scared to shower and sleep for a few days after each story. I found out all these stories were actually suicide.

Two people in my neighborhood recently committed suicide. One was public knowledge. The other was a "car accident" that supposedly happened elsewhere.

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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #191 on: February 23, 2018, 03:46:29 PM »
+1. I'd be surprised if this kid and his classmates were all on social media at 11. And if they were, whatever part it may have contributed to this tragedy is definitely on all of the parents - no matter how hard one might think keeping them away from it is.
This particular case, the boy had social media... I'm not saying it was a factor, but you can see more inside his life and the direction he was going in  by looking at his posts.

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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #192 on: February 25, 2018, 03:49:43 PM »
Pick an age group and I am raising a child there.

I think this might be one area where I have a little more variety than you do. Though we'ere definitely close.  ;)
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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #193 on: February 25, 2018, 03:53:56 PM »
I think this might be one area where I have a little more variety than you do. Though we'ere definitely close.  ;)
LOL give me a bit more time.
Feelings don't care about your facts

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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #194 on: February 25, 2018, 04:04:05 PM »
LOL give me a bit more time.
That might not help close the gap, as any time you get, I get too.
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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #195 on: February 25, 2018, 04:04:56 PM »
That might not help close the gap, as any time you get, I get too.
Biology doesn't work that way.
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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #196 on: February 25, 2018, 04:12:29 PM »
Biology doesn't work that way.
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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #197 on: February 25, 2018, 04:15:21 PM »
Feelings don't care about your facts

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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #198 on: February 25, 2018, 04:16:19 PM »
Was that biological?

What happened to the bread?

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Re: BDE 11 year old frum boy commits suicide
« Reply #199 on: February 25, 2018, 04:17:33 PM »
Feelings don't care about your facts