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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #960 on: February 12, 2023, 05:14:53 PM »
I remember seeing a pamphlet, years ago (at least 12), regarding someone who had davened at the kosel for a yeshua (marriage, I think) for a long time. His friend tried convincing him to go to Rashbi, but he wasn't interested, saying the kosel is surely the best place to daven. After quite some time, he gave in, and went to daven by Rashbi. He immediately had a yeshua.
The paper concluded (in Ivrit, but I don't remember the words), "We see that even when Hashem Himself doesn't give a yeshua, Rashbi has the power to give yeshuos!"
It was ernst, well, kefira.
The pitfalls need to be known. You cannot forget the True Source when you are involved with what are essentially segulos.
צדיק גוזר והקב''ה מקיים.

Why is Rashbi a "segula"?

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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #961 on: February 12, 2023, 05:15:51 PM »
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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #962 on: February 13, 2023, 04:09:07 AM »
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There is a time-honored minhag going at least back to Kalev (if not the medrash about Rochel Imeinu's kever) to daven AT kivrei tzadikim. There is a machlokes if asking the tzadik for help is permitted, but let us say (for argument's sake) that you go with those who permit it.
The problem here is not that he left the kosel and went to Rashbi. The problem is "even when Hashem Himself doesn't give a yeshua, Rashbi has the power." If you don't think that is kefira, I can't help you.
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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #963 on: February 13, 2023, 11:37:31 AM »
There is a time-honored minhag going at least back to Kalev (if not the medrash about Rochel Imeinu's kever) to daven AT kivrei tzadikim.

How are you reading the gemara? It (to me) seems pretty clear Kalev is asking the Avos for help.
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אָמַר רָבָא מְלַמֵּד שֶׁפֵּירַשׁ כָּלֵב מֵעֲצַת מְרַגְּלִים וְהָלַךְ וְנִשְׁתַּטַּח עַל קִבְרֵי אָבוֹת אָמַר לָהֶן אֲבוֹתַי בִּקְּשׁוּ עָלַי רַחֲמִים שֶׁאֶנָּצֵל מֵעֲצַת מְרַגְּלִים

Rava says: This teaches that Caleb separated himself from the counsel of the other spies and went and prostrated himself on the graves of the forefathers in Hebron. He said to them: My forefathers, pray for mercy for me so that I will be saved from the counsel of the spies.

There is a machlokes if asking the tzadik for help is permitted, but let us say (for argument's sake) that you go with those who permit it.
Yes, as you, I, and others mentioned, it's an old machlokes, but see the tshuva I referenced above that not only is it permitted, but he writes "אדרבא, מצוה איכא"
שו״ת מנחת אלעזר חלק א׳ סימן ס״ח
https://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=14912&st=&pgnum=172

The problem is "even when Hashem Himself doesn't give a yeshua, Rashbi has the power." If you don't think that is kefira, I can't help you.

I think there's a misunderstanding here. I don't think anyone is forgetting the True Source. Sometimes to get a "favorable" outcome from the True Source different methods may need to be employed, such as tshuva/tzedaka/tfila/tfilas tzaddikim etc.



ETA: Gemara with Kalev is סוטה ל״ד ב
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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #964 on: February 13, 2023, 12:49:33 PM »
How are you reading the gemara?
Some are gores differently see ספר המאורות סוף מסכת ברכות

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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #965 on: February 13, 2023, 01:08:25 PM »
Some are gores differently see ספר המאורות סוף מסכת ברכות
Interesting thank you. Would you happen to have a link or image?

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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #966 on: February 13, 2023, 01:38:03 PM »

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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #967 on: February 13, 2023, 02:50:01 PM »
Yes, as you, I, and others mentioned, it's an old machlokes, but see the tshuva I referenced above that not only is it permitted, but he writes "אדרבא, מצוה איכא"
שו״ת מנחת אלעזר חלק א׳ סימן ס״ח
https://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=14912&st=&pgnum=172
אלא ודאי דלא ישום מגמתו שהמת יושיעו באיזה כח דזהו ודאי עון פלילי
The paper concluded (in Ivrit, but I don't remember the words), "We see that even when Hashem Himself doesn't give a yeshua, Rashbi has the power to give yeshuos!"
If you don't think that is kefira, I can't help you.

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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #968 on: February 13, 2023, 03:04:57 PM »


I think there's a misunderstanding here. I don't think anyone is forgetting the True Source. Sometimes to get a "favorable" outcome from the True Source different methods may need to be employed, such as tshuva/tzedaka/tfila/tfilas tzaddikim etc.

I would imagine that the people who published the paper would be horrified at what is being read into it by some here.

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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #969 on: February 13, 2023, 03:22:36 PM »
I would imagine that the people who published the paper would be horrified at what is being read into it by some here.
Oy. R' Shimon save us all.

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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #970 on: February 13, 2023, 03:38:17 PM »
Oy. R' Shimon save us all.

Sorry. I forgot R' Chaim has the trademark on salvation.  ::)
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I ask everyone to partner with me to save the life of my friend, a huge talmid chacham...His situation has touched my heart and is close to being one of pikuach nefesh. All those who help, I will remember them for good. They will merit to raise their children to Torah and to the chuppah, and no sickness or harm should befall upon their families. They will be blessed with children, life and sustenance.

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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #971 on: February 13, 2023, 03:51:06 PM »
Sorry. I forgot R' Chaim has the trademark on salvation.  ::)https://thechesedfund.com/vaadharabanimprojects/coin?aff=43
They're coming up with new titles every day here. R' Michel Feinstein's son (R' Dovid) is now the "Amud Hatoirah".
Who knew? (Disclaimer: I in no way C"V mean to make fun of Gedoilim or Rabbonim, just to point out some of the excesses of the commercialization of Gedoilim for various purposes)

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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #972 on: February 13, 2023, 03:51:26 PM »
Sorry. I forgot R' Chaim has the trademark on salvation.  ::)https://thechesedfund.com/vaadharabanimprojects/coin?aff=43
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All those who help, I will remember them for good.
Bad translation. The original says אכיר להם טובה

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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #973 on: February 13, 2023, 04:00:01 PM »
How are you reading the gemara? It (to me) seems pretty clear Kalev is asking the Avos for help. Yes, as you, I, and others mentioned, it's an old machlokes, but see the tshuva I referenced above that not only is it permitted, but he writes "אדרבא, מצוה איכא"
שו״ת מנחת אלעזר חלק א׳ סימן ס״ח
https://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=14912&st=&pgnum=172

I think there's a misunderstanding here. I don't think anyone is forgetting the True Source. Sometimes to get a "favorable" outcome from the True Source different methods may need to be employed, such as tshuva/tzedaka/tfila/tfilas tzaddikim etc.



ETA: Gemara with Kalev is סוטה ל״ד ב
Asking the Avos to intercede is not the same as saying that the Avos have the power to save him. Technically, through the mechanics of צדיק גוזר, והקב"ה מקיים the tzaddik has a Koach, but ultimately, it is all Hashem, and if that is not understood, then, OUCH!

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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #974 on: February 13, 2023, 04:01:08 PM »
Bad translation. The original says אכיר להם טובה

So as it stands the letter as written on chessedfund is kefira?

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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #975 on: February 13, 2023, 04:03:33 PM »
Asking the Avos to intercede is not the same as saying that the Avos have the power to save him. Technically, through the mechanics of צדיק גוזר, והקב"ה מקיים the tzaddik has a Koach, but ultimately, it is all Hashem, and if that is not understood, then, OUCH!

That's what I said at the end.
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I think there's a misunderstanding here. I don't think anyone is forgetting the True Source.


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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #976 on: February 13, 2023, 04:06:27 PM »
That's what I said at the end.
Hopefully. But that's not what he said.

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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #977 on: February 13, 2023, 04:08:25 PM »
So as it stands the letter as written on chessedfund is kefira?
“to remember them for good” is a bit ambiguous. Could technically mean to daven for them for good. Definitely dangerously close

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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #978 on: February 13, 2023, 04:08:38 PM »
Hopefully. But that's not what he said.

Who's he?


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Re: Torah & Hashkafa Questions (PC Free For All)
« Reply #979 on: February 13, 2023, 04:09:50 PM »
Who's he?


I remember seeing a pamphlet, years ago (at least 12), regarding someone who had davened at the kosel for a yeshua (marriage, I think) for a long time. His friend tried convincing him to go to Rashbi, but he wasn't interested, saying the kosel is surely the best place to daven. After quite some time, he gave in, and went to daven by Rashbi. He immediately had a yeshua.
The paper concluded (in Ivrit, but I don't remember the words), "We see that even when Hashem Himself doesn't give a yeshua, Rashbi has the power to give yeshuos!"
It was ernst, well, kefira.
The pitfalls need to be known. You cannot forget the True Source when you are involved with what are essentially segulos.