+1.
Additionally, not all criticism of what you write is an attack. It's an extremely valuable trait to have, to be able to accept criticism without feeling attacked. It allows one to respond with a cool head, sometimes seeing the other point of view, and reaching amicable resolution much faster.
For me the, the irony is that I get attacked for not having respect for torah, chazal, halacha.
Yet I spend a premium on kosher wines precisely because I accept Halacha.
Maybe we dont see eye to eye on bugs, but then again I have a lot of halachik support for my practices there.
As much as criticism is important, so is being able to accept that people practice judaism differently.
Yet to me, the #1 thing that pisses me off is, talking in shull. I never ever saw any one any where write that its OK to shmooze during kaddish or chazaras hashatz, or krias hatorah.. yet its quite normal.