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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #240 on: December 19, 2013, 01:42:06 AM »
That's what happens when you get engaged, as a result:
You get married, and as a result:
Your wife is pregy, and as a result:
You have a baby, and as a result:
The baby cries, and as a result:
You're up at night, and as a result:
You browse DDF, and as a result:
You read tips on dating and wedding night.






Ok, baby is calming down after 1 1/2 hour non-stop crying
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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #241 on: December 19, 2013, 01:45:05 AM »
That's what happens when you get engaged, as a result:
You get married, and as a result:
Your wife is pregy, and as a result:
You have a baby, and as a result:
The baby cries, and as a result:
You're up at night, and as a result:
You browse DDF, and as a result:
You read tips on dating and wedding night.






Ok, baby is calming down after 1 1/2 hour non-stop crying
as a result.....
U become meshuga...:P
If u work for a living, why kill urself working?

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #242 on: December 19, 2013, 01:48:17 AM »
as a result.....
U become meshuga...:P

I wasn't going to say it….

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #243 on: December 19, 2013, 01:48:36 AM »
And then?


Hey! Why are YOU up so late?
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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #244 on: December 19, 2013, 01:51:01 AM »
And then?


Hey! Why are YOU up so late?

Too many jokes for me tonight. My kid is sick and is also crying…don't think he is going to sleep anytime soon though. Are we scaring off all the engaged guys looking for hotels?

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #245 on: December 19, 2013, 03:56:49 AM »
Too many jokes for me tonight. My kid is sick and is also crying…don't think he is going to sleep anytime soon though. Are we scaring off all the engaged guys looking for hotels?
That probably happened pages ago:P

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #246 on: December 19, 2013, 09:58:14 AM »
That's what happens when you get engaged, as a result:
You get married, and as a result:
Your wife is pregy, and as a result:
You have a baby, and as a result:
The baby cries, and as a result:
You're up at night, and as a result:
You browse DDF, and as a result:
You read tips on dating and wedding night.






Ok, baby is calming down after 1 1/2 hour non-stop crying
+1000!

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #247 on: December 19, 2013, 10:03:51 AM »
I probably should refrain but here goes. I will do this methodically so we don't speak past each other.

First off, I am very happily married and wouldn't trade my married life for my single years any day of the week. (Well maybe one day a week - there I go again making bad jokes about marriage!!).

Premise 1
While I am very happily married and in a loving committed relationship I am not going to kid myself and say that there isn't every once in a while a moment when I look back with nostalgia at my single days ("the freedom to do what I want when I want etc."). Some (naive, unrealistic ) people would be horrified by such a thought, as if marriage is supposed to be the answer to all the world's problems and eternal sunshine and bliss.  The obvious fact is that marriage makes your life more complicated (duh, you are adding a whole other person to your person + hopefully kids and more responsibilities). The same way there are good days and bad days before you are married there will be good days and bad days after you are married. I agree with you that married life is different and better than single life. Married life is a richer deeper more meaningful life and therefore there is the opportunity for it to be "better", but the flip side to that is that it also has the opportunity to be more "difficult" at times (More difficulty=more enjoyment).

Premise 2
How to cope or deal with the difficult times (in life/in marriage/in everything)? I personally find that staying positive, not taking things too seriously, and being able to laugh about things (especially w/ regard to married life) helps me keep things in perspective and live a positive balanced life. While I definitely believe in different strokes for different folks I sometimes wonder how people could be soooooo serious and not be depressed (or maybe they are). I think everyone would agree we should all aim for balance.


Now that brings me back to my JOKE (I hope you didn't think I was serious) that "after the wedding it all goes downhill" in connection with trying to encourage someone to look at his wedding night as a really special night and to "spring" a couple extra bucks to make it a night to remember forever. It stinks to have to explain a joke but I guess I was referring to the fact that life gets more complex and difficult (and also so much better) with marriage. Every once in a while it is nice to look back to the beginning (your wedding night) when things were so simple and not complex and that one may want that reflection to be something more than a Ramada Jacuzzi (Dan had a funny reaction to that). Granted the joke was not SNL worthy, but I thought it was a bit funny.

While I am sure I misunderstood your reaction…it came across as wayyyy tooooo serious…..at least for me and it warranted a "chillax"!!. I apologize if my subsequent comment offended you as I should've kept it to myself and stuck to my "different strokes for different folks" idea. If being super serious works for you..then by all means...

Anyways, enough seriousness for me  :D I am starting to get depressed and I probably used up my posting limit for the year on this post, but just wanted to clarify. I am also thinking that this may be the wrong thread to discuss all this  ;D
+10^100
Maybe someone should start a wiki.

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #248 on: December 19, 2013, 11:16:00 AM »
+10^100
Maybe someone should start a wiki.

On Marriage?!? It would never end  ;)

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #249 on: December 19, 2013, 04:12:26 PM »
On Marriage?!? It would never end  ;)
No, silly. On where to go for the wedding night.

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #250 on: December 19, 2013, 06:26:41 PM »
Premise 1
While I am very happily married and in a loving committed relationship I am not going to kid myself and say that there isn't every once in a while a moment when I look back with nostalgia at my single days ("the freedom to do what I want when I want etc."). Some (naive, unrealistic ) people would be horrified by such a thought, as if marriage is supposed to be the answer to all the world's problems and eternal sunshine and bliss.  The obvious fact is that marriage makes your life more complicated (duh, you are adding a whole other person to your person + hopefully kids and more responsibilities). The same way there are good days and bad days before you are married there will be good days and bad days after you are married. I agree with you that married life is different and better than single life. Married life is a richer deeper more meaningful life and therefore there is the opportunity for it to be "better", but the flip side to that is that it also has the opportunity to be more "difficult" at times (More difficulty=more enjoyment).

Premise 2
How to cope or deal with the difficult times (in life/in marriage/in everything)? I personally find that staying positive, not taking things too seriously, and being able to laugh about things (especially w/ regard to married life) helps me keep things in perspective and live a positive balanced life. While I definitely believe in different strokes for different folks I sometimes wonder how people could be soooooo serious and not be depressed (or maybe they are). I think everyone would agree we should all aim for balance.

So I actually agree with pretty much everything you're 'premising'. There are also many people here that can vouch for my lack of super seriousness. When you said 'all goes downhill', I didn't realize you meant in the context of life getting stressful. Being a chosson teacher, I was reacting sensitively to an area that you apparently weren't referencing, but is often misunderstood.
For further discussion, I will gladly respond to pm's(, from you or anyone else who is now confused).

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #251 on: December 19, 2013, 06:50:16 PM »
Couldn't resist guys  :P

HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY

1. Feed him
2. Sleep with him
3. Leave him with peace
4. Don't check his phone (Msgs)
5. Don't bother him with his
movements
So whats so hard about that
?

HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY

It's really not too difficult but.... To make a
woman happy, a man only needs
to be:

1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a plumber
10. a mechanic
11. a carpenter
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
44. give her compliments
regularly
45. Go shopping with her
46. be honest
47. be very rich
48. not stress her out
49. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU
MUST ALSO:
50. give her lots of attention
51. give her lots of time,
especially time for herself
52. give her lots of space, never
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BUT MOST OF ALL IT IS VERY
IMPORTANT
53. never forget
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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #252 on: December 19, 2013, 07:14:35 PM »
AROFLMAO!

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #253 on: December 19, 2013, 07:44:22 PM »
AROFLMAO!

You no longer have an @$$?!?! :o

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #254 on: December 19, 2013, 07:46:16 PM »
AROFLMAO!
+1. Wow! Your own? Pretty comprehensive... :D