To save you time, here's a sum up of this thread. If you're getting married close to NYC (yes, Brooklyn is in NYC) - just go to the Andaz 5th.

REMEMBER: You must take your kesubah with you, or give it to someone to hold for you. The kallah has to know where it is.
DRAFTLakewoodThe American Hotel in Freehold TR by @Yehuda
here and herehttp://innonmainmanasquan.com/wp/ DrDanny recommended Special secrethttp://www.berkeleyhotelnj.com/ https://www.bungalowhotel.net/Hyatt New Brunswick 55min away
NYC AreaSPGW Hoboken
TR by SamKeyWestin Jersey City
The Westin New York at Times Square
Element New York Times Square West
Le Parker Méridien New York
W New York
St. Regis New York
TR by Whacked1HyattAndaz 5th Ave
TR by AJKAndaz Wall St
Ritz Central Park
TR by wonderlustNorth JerseyHilton Pearl River
Marriott Glen Point
Sheraton Crossroads (mahwah)
Sheraton Meadowlands
Hilton Woodcliff Lake
BaltimoreHyatt by the Harbor
DoubleTree/Hilton at Reisterstown Rd