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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #40 on: August 21, 2011, 09:50:11 PM »
only lying to goyim is ok, as opposed to C'h, so ones an ok lie and ones a bad lie
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Re: Re: Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #41 on: August 22, 2011, 12:38:20 AM »
sounds like a major C"h when they walk out.

many many hotels have more then one entrance, u checkin and you schlep the gantza meshpacha through a diff door.... tht simple  :o

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #42 on: August 22, 2011, 05:54:44 AM »
only lying to goyim is ok, as opposed to C'h, so ones an ok lie and ones a bad lie

I'm not sure if you are being serious or not

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #43 on: August 22, 2011, 07:44:25 AM »
I'm not sure if you are being serious or not

I guess that depends if the reader is a yid or not :D

Yes, presumably
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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #44 on: August 22, 2011, 10:22:12 AM »
I guess that depends if the reader is a yid or not :D

Yes, presumably

Did you hear the one about the yid or told the other yid they were doing something wrong?
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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #45 on: August 22, 2011, 10:30:15 AM »
Did you hear the one about the yid or told the other yid they were doing something wrong?


just pointing out the various elements of your 'trick'.

then again, at least we agree the lying part is ok.
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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #46 on: August 22, 2011, 10:31:28 AM »

just pointing out the various elements of your 'trick'.

then again, at least we agree the lying part is ok.

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #47 on: August 22, 2011, 10:41:43 AM »
Is it Platinum "Guy" or Platinum "Goy"?


Just to understand your position, do you think claiming you're on a honeymoon with 5 kids is not a C'h?  or do you think C'h is ok?
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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #48 on: August 22, 2011, 10:43:45 AM »

Just to understand your position, do you think claiming you're on a honeymoon with 5 kids is not a C'h?  or do you think C'h is ok?

I think this is not a/your halachic playground...let people do what they want to do, IMHO
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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #49 on: August 22, 2011, 10:46:38 AM »
...let people do what they want to do, IMHO
I think voicing an opinion comes under that category.
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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #50 on: August 22, 2011, 10:50:36 AM »
Can we use some common sense here folks?
Don't claim it's your honeymoon if you're bring kids!

Sheesh...
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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #51 on: August 22, 2011, 11:30:21 AM »
Can we use some common sense here folks?
Don't claim it's your honeymoon if you're bring kids!

Sheesh...

whether you bring kids or not its a lie

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #52 on: August 22, 2011, 11:33:09 AM »
whether you bring kids or not its a lie
Why is that?  People go on honeymoons for a while after a wedding when they are able to travel.  It's doesn't have to be right away.

Besides if you can't tell the different between two lies (where 1 is blatantly obvious and the other isn't at all) than I simply don't know what to say.
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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #53 on: August 22, 2011, 11:36:44 AM »
im just saying that if its not really your honeymoon and you say it is then it is a lie, whether a small lie or big lie its still a lie
ive done it myself plenty of times but i dont try and fool myself into thinking that im not lying to the hotel.

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #54 on: August 22, 2011, 11:47:57 AM »
im just saying that if its not really your honeymoon and you say it is then it is a lie, whether a small lie or big lie its still a lie
ive done it myself plenty of times but i dont try and fool myself into thinking that im not lying to the hotel.
And you see no difference between whether you bring kids or not after saying its your honeymoon?
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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #55 on: August 22, 2011, 11:49:23 AM »
Anyone actually gone the full 9 yards and rocked up with wedding dress and all not on the wedding night? ;)

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #56 on: August 22, 2011, 11:50:22 AM »
And you see no difference between whether you bring kids or not after saying its your honeymoon?
yeah if you bring kids then your an idiot

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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #57 on: August 22, 2011, 11:51:38 AM »
yeah if you bring kids then your an idiot
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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #58 on: August 22, 2011, 11:59:08 AM »
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I dont understand everyones logic here???

Has noone ever seen someone with kids get married before?
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Re: Hotel for Wedding Night?
« Reply #59 on: August 22, 2011, 12:02:38 PM »
I dont understand everyones logic here???

Has noone ever seen someone with kids get married before?

ppl with kids get married all the time they just dont usually bring the kids on thier honeymoon