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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #20 on: September 06, 2018, 08:26:47 PM »
If i recall correctly that’s only if you actually already gave money.... not just a verbal commitmwnt
you might be right  now that you mention it.
backing out of a verbal agreement is mechusar amana
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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #21 on: September 06, 2018, 08:27:12 PM »
michusar amana...
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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #22 on: September 06, 2018, 08:47:48 PM »
If i recall correctly that’s only if you actually already gave money.... not just a verbal commitmwnt
Correct so here too

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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #23 on: September 06, 2018, 08:48:41 PM »
michusar amana...
Considering that you did not have the item yet and it is only a commitment to go and do something I do not think this applies either
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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #24 on: September 06, 2018, 08:49:28 PM »
Considering that you did not have the item yet and it is only a commitment to go and do something I do not think this applies either
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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #25 on: September 06, 2018, 11:59:30 PM »
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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #26 on: September 07, 2018, 12:31:26 AM »
What if it is a goy? OK to screw him over?  :)
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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #27 on: September 07, 2018, 12:31:38 AM »
If I verbally agree to sell something to someone at a certain price and then the market goes up, am I bound by that original agreement? What about if it was in writing? Whatsapp? Is there a nafka mina between Whatsapp and telegram because I can only delete for 7 minutes in Whatsapp but I have longer on Telegram?
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IINM the price went up before one was able to acquire. How does that change things? What if purchase didn't go smoothly and needed to spend more time & effort than anticipated in order to purchase?
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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #28 on: September 07, 2018, 01:37:00 AM »
I'm going to differ slightly.
You agreed that if you managed to purchase a coin, you would sell it to him.
He doesn't know if you actually bought one or not until you tell him.
If you didn't buy one, you have no obligation to him.
So if you don't tell him, or lie when asked, he doesn't know you're walking away with his coin.  Maybe that's allowed, although not so nice.
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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #29 on: September 07, 2018, 02:58:27 AM »
I'm going to differ slightly.
You agreed that if you managed to purchase a coin, you would sell it to him.
He doesn't know if you actually bought one or not until you tell him.
If you didn't buy one, you have no obligation to him.
So if you don't tell him, or lie when asked, he doesn't know you're walking away with his coin.  Maybe that's allowed, although not so nice.

why is that not

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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #30 on: September 07, 2018, 03:08:58 AM »
why is that not

I think she is right. It's a דבר שלא בא לעולם at time of agreement.

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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #31 on: September 07, 2018, 08:05:00 AM »
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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #32 on: September 07, 2018, 10:48:45 AM »
Because nothing changed hands
I am not a Rov or Posek. (I actually think this would make for a very interesting discussion with a Posek.) Being that he specifically asks you during the opt in to accept terms that say you are committing it to him, it may be different than just a verbal commitment. These things also can depend on the minhag hamokom and accepted general business practice. Next time I have a chance I will run it by a Posek. Either way its a disgusting thing to do, and completely unethical.

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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #33 on: September 07, 2018, 10:53:23 AM »
I am not a Rov or Posek. (I actually think this would make for a very interesting discussion with a Posek.) Being that he specifically asks you during the opt in to accept terms that say you are committing it to him, it may be different than just a verbal commitment. These things also can depend on the minhag hamokom and accepted general business practice. Next time I have a chance I will run it by a Posek. Either way its a disgusting thing to do, and completely unethical.
I think it’s completely disgusting of these people offering $50 each when they are making upwards of $500 each. Taking advantage of the masses and those who don’t know better...
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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #34 on: September 07, 2018, 10:55:33 AM »
I think it’s completely disgusting of these people offering $50 each when they are making upwards of $500 each. Taking advantage of the masses and those who don’t know better...
Except when the price goes down as it has in the past and they pay it out and absorb the loss.
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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #35 on: September 07, 2018, 10:56:20 AM »
I am not a Rov or Posek. (I actually think this would make for a very interesting discussion with a Posek.) Being that he specifically asks you during the opt in to accept terms that say you are committing it to him, it may be different than just a verbal commitment. These things also can depend on the minhag hamokom and accepted general business practice. Next time I have a chance I will run it by a Posek. Either way its a disgusting thing to do, and completely unethical.
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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #36 on: September 07, 2018, 11:20:41 AM »
I think it’s completely disgusting of these people offering $50 each when they are making upwards of $500 each. Taking advantage of the masses and those who don’t know better...
If I understand their business model correctly, they don't necessarily know in advance what price the coin will end up at. As a matter of fact in the original email they weren't even sure what the mint selling price was going to be. Obviously they have some idea as to which coins will end up being valuable. I have done deals with them where the household limit was ultimately lifted, and each person can buy as they please, yet they stood by their commitment and paid for the coin, shipping to them, and commission. Its amazing how people expect them to honor their side no matter what, but their own commitment is completely up for negotiation.

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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #37 on: September 07, 2018, 11:22:41 AM »
I think it’s completely disgusting of these people offering $50 each when they are making upwards of $500 each. Taking advantage of the masses and those who don’t know better...
No one is making 500/coin.
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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #38 on: September 07, 2018, 11:59:36 AM »
I think it’s completely disgusting of these people offering $50 each when they are making upwards of $500 each. Taking advantage of the masses and those who don’t know better...

I assume you also don't go to restaurants because you can grill a steak at home for a fraction of the price they charge.

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Re: Serious Halachic Question
« Reply #39 on: September 07, 2018, 12:03:19 PM »
No one is making 500/coin.
As of now people seem to be.
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