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How can I miss you if you never go away?
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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #160 on: January 01, 2019, 12:25:35 PM »

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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #161 on: January 01, 2019, 12:26:43 PM »
Just wondering @dan
Does everyone that has been paged in this thread get such personal attention?

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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #162 on: January 01, 2019, 12:27:28 PM »
Just wondering @Dan
Does everyone that has been paged in this thread get such personal attention?
Nope.
Save your time, I don't answer PM. Post it in the forum and a dedicated DDF'er will get back to you as soon as possible.

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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #163 on: January 01, 2019, 12:40:05 PM »
-1+1
u really shud have came to the DO  8)
Lol funny you say that. I was at a DO with him when he decided to bring back CM. Curious to see what he does thus time.
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Is he OK?
Was thinking the same. I hope he's alright. Maybe he just needed a break.
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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #164 on: January 01, 2019, 12:46:37 PM »
Was thinking the same. I hope he's alright. Maybe he just needed a break.
Hoping so as well, but he hasn't responded to the email I sent to 2 addresses that I have for him.
Save your time, I don't answer PM. Post it in the forum and a dedicated DDF'er will get back to you as soon as possible.

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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #165 on: January 01, 2019, 12:50:34 PM »
Hoping so as well, but he hasn't responded to the email I sent to 2 addresses that I have for him.
i think @yochiek93 should know something

ETA: I see heís also not around since end of November

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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #166 on: January 01, 2019, 12:51:26 PM »
i think @yochiek93 should know something
He also hasnít been online for 6 weeks.

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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #167 on: January 01, 2019, 12:52:00 PM »
He also hasnít been online for 6 weeks.
Yup see edit

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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #168 on: January 01, 2019, 02:35:12 PM »
Hoping so as well, but he hasn't responded to the email I sent to 2 addresses that I have for him.
May have his cell number. Will check and report back.

ETA: Nope, sorry.
« Last Edit: January 01, 2019, 02:41:15 PM by hvaces42 »
Fair warning - Any PMs sent in response to forum posts are fair game for ridicule in public.

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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #169 on: January 01, 2019, 02:35:48 PM »
i think @yochiek93 should know something

ETA: I see heís also not around since end of November
He's just busy. I see him at least once a week.
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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #170 on: January 01, 2019, 03:08:18 PM »
He's just busy. I see him at least once a week.
Good news!!

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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #171 on: January 01, 2019, 03:25:45 PM »
He's just busy. I see him at least once a week.
Ask him about @TimT?
Save your time, I don't answer PM. Post it in the forum and a dedicated DDF'er will get back to you as soon as possible.

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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #172 on: January 01, 2019, 04:39:18 PM »
Sorry I don't know anything, but I'll try to find out.

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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #173 on: January 01, 2019, 05:43:18 PM »
There's a fine line between caring and creepy. Let's not cross that line.
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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #174 on: January 01, 2019, 06:59:27 PM »
There's a fine line between caring and creepy. Let's not cross that line.
Curious what here came across as creepy...seems like care and genuine concern.

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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #175 on: January 01, 2019, 07:14:01 PM »
Curious what here came across as creepy...seems like care and genuine concern.
I wasn't saying that at all. My point was that we should keep in mind that he may not want to be contacted.
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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #176 on: January 01, 2019, 07:22:51 PM »
I wasn't saying that at all. My point was that we should keep in mind that he may not want to be contacted.
+1 in general someone who is absent may not mind 1 or 2 friendly messages or the like, but having a whole search party may feel like being harassed. I'd guess there's a line somewhere in the middle, probably closer to the lower end of the spectrum.

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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #177 on: January 01, 2019, 07:44:48 PM »
+1 in general someone who is absent may not mind 1 or 2 friendly messages or the like, but having a whole search party may feel like being harassed. I'd guess there's a line somewhere in the middle, probably closer to the lower end of the spectrum.
Exactly. If he just needs a break, let's let him have it. If he's c"v not doing well, leave him be. If he want to, he know we were reaching out.
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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #178 on: January 02, 2019, 12:16:31 AM »
+1 in general someone who is absent may not mind 1 or 2 friendly messages or the like, but having a whole search party may feel like being harassed. I'd guess there's a line somewhere in the middle, probably closer to the lower end of the spectrum.
Yes, but we also really need a search guy.. :)
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Re: Absent DDFers
« Reply #179 on: January 02, 2019, 09:11:47 AM »
Yes, but we also really need a search guy.. :)
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