All the people who say that a tragedy comes for something that someone else did reminds me of this
וְהִתְבָּרֵ֨ךְ בִּלְבָב֤וֹ לֵאמֹר֙ שָׁל֣וֹם יִֽהְיֶה־לִּ֔י כִּ֛י בִּשְׁרִר֥וּת לִבִּ֖י אֵלֵ֑ךְ לְמַ֛עַן סְפ֥וֹת הָֽרָוָ֖ה אֶת־הַצְּמֵאָֽה:
Like the men blaming on tznius and the women blaming on talking in shul.
Note that this is the one thing for which the chumash says that
לֹֽא־יֹאבֶ֣ה ... סְלֹ֣חַ לוֹ֒
Maybe if I would be more careful in hilchos shabbos they wouldn't be driving to shul. Maybe if I would be more careful in shmiras einayim they wouldn't be in illicit relations.