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Re: marriage license
« Reply #40 on: March 13, 2015, 02:30:44 PM »
Where is the closest place to 5 towns?
If I'm from NJ and she's from NY and wedding is in NY, do I have to do it in NY or I can do it in NJ if more convenient for me?

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Re: marriage license
« Reply #41 on: March 13, 2015, 02:33:23 PM »
Where is the closest place to 5 towns?
If I'm from NJ and she's from NY and wedding is in NY, do I have to do it in NY or I can do it in NJ if more convenient for me?
Theres a place in Hempstead right off Peninsula Blvd. 10-15 depending where in 5T. Pretty quick over there.

http://www.toh.li/marriage
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Re: marriage license
« Reply #42 on: March 13, 2015, 02:40:35 PM »
Theres a place in Hempstead right off Peninsula Blvd. 10-15 depending where in 5T. Pretty quick over there.

http://www.toh.li/marriage
i "got married" there

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Re: marriage license
« Reply #43 on: March 13, 2015, 03:02:14 PM »
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Re: marriage license
« Reply #44 on: March 13, 2015, 03:08:07 PM »
Anyone here ask for the civil union instead? The people got all confused.

(NY never repealed their civil union law)

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Re: marriage license
« Reply #45 on: March 13, 2015, 03:10:01 PM »
Theres a place in Hempstead right off Peninsula Blvd. 10-15 depending where in 5T. Pretty quick over there.

http://www.toh.li/marriage
thanks.
If I'm understanding correctly we both have to bring a birth certificate and drivers license. Correct?
They give us a license that the mesader kedushin fills out and sends back to them?
Do I need witness?

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Re: marriage license
« Reply #46 on: March 13, 2015, 03:13:35 PM »
thanks.
If I'm understanding correctly we both have to bring a birth certificate and drivers license. Correct?
They give us a license that the mesader kedushin fills out and sends back to them?
Do I need witness?
you will have witnesses sign at the wedding
they dont have to be kosher l'edus

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Re: marriage license
« Reply #47 on: March 13, 2015, 03:36:21 PM »
thanks.
If I'm understanding correctly we both have to bring a birth certificate and drivers license. Correct?
They give us a license that the mesader kedushin fills out and sends back to them?
Do I need witness?

You don't need witnesses for a legal wedding from what I know.
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Re: marriage license
« Reply #48 on: March 16, 2015, 04:32:53 AM »
You don't need witnesses for a legal wedding from what I know.
You do IME

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Re: marriage license
« Reply #49 on: March 16, 2015, 04:39:21 AM »
You don't need witnesses for a legal wedding from what I know.
You do

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Re: marriage license
« Reply #50 on: March 16, 2015, 08:53:26 AM »
You do

Just looked into it. Yep - 2 witnesses are needed. I guess thats where the "best man and maid of honor" come from :)
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Re: marriage license
« Reply #51 on: March 16, 2015, 10:05:32 AM »
Just looked into it. Yep - 2 witnesses are needed. I guess thats where the "best man and maid of honor" come from :)
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Re: marriage license
« Reply #52 on: March 16, 2015, 10:42:31 AM »
Theres a place in Hempstead right off Peninsula Blvd. 10-15 depending where in 5T. Pretty quick over there.

http://www.toh.li/marriage
+1 i was in and out in a few min

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Re: marriage license
« Reply #53 on: March 17, 2015, 09:34:15 AM »
Can any mesader kidushin sign a marriage license or does he have to be a "Registered Rabbi"?

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Re: marriage license
« Reply #54 on: March 17, 2015, 09:54:33 AM »
Can any mesader kidushin sign a marriage license or does he have to be a "Registered Rabbi"?
Which state?

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Re: marriage license
« Reply #55 on: March 17, 2015, 10:00:57 AM »
Can any mesader kidushin sign a marriage license or does he have to be a "Registered Rabbi"?
Depends where
The NYS marriage license instructions says it must be signed by a rabbi registered with the city.

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Re: marriage license
« Reply #56 on: March 17, 2015, 10:56:53 AM »
Anyone know how to find a "registered rabbi" in New York?

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Re: marriage license
« Reply #57 on: January 21, 2022, 10:25:54 AM »
Anyone know how to find a "registered rabbi" in New York?

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Re: marriage license
« Reply #58 on: January 21, 2022, 05:06:25 PM »
The NYC marriage license instructions says it must be signed by a rabbi registered with the city.

FTFH. If it's outside of the city you just need to be an ordained rabbi. No need to register.