You keep saving I blame the soldiers. Others pick up on that lie. The EC just keeps getting bigger.
They made a MISTAKE!!! That is not blaming them. The disagreement is what caused that mistake.
If you would have just said it was a mistake, i would not have argued. But you added the part about anger and vengeance
But perhaps our disagreement then is talmudic in nature.
In talmudic law, a man cannot absolve himself just because it was a "mistake" damages most still be paid and even accidental deaths carry some sort of punishment (exile vs death penalty)
The only time one can be absolved from killing another is when there was no other choice i.e. if that person is threatening their life.
You claim was the former, i claim they had reason to believe the latter.
Or in talmudic terms you say they were a shogeg(mistake) i say it was korev leoness (bordering on not having another choice)