depends if DW likes not me..
and she will probaly like what everyone else likes
Aha. So you don't care...
It's one of those things that you don't do because others do. If you like, you like... I've been around ppl who imo had a very pungent smell... Obviously they didn't feel that way.
It comes down to preference. However, usually you can tell if it's something that's very strong which others may not like. I personally like choosing only something which is relatively light and fresh...