Fair interpretation.
Do we not want to say it because we're protecting an ally, or because it's stuff we've done, too, and we aren't ready to open up that can of worms?
They both need to realize this is hurting both countries.
US needs to understand Israel has to eliminate Hamas the best they can.
Israel needs to understand they need to protect civilians better.
From there they both need to get on the same page and keep it private.