I think that just abt covers it
Wait a minute, is there such a thing as a learner on DDF?
Highly doubt it. But from your above words it sounded like it's not a must.
So we can continue.
Just one more question, where's the couple going to live in?
1) I don't care
2) Eretz Yisroel
3) Lakewood
4) NYC
5) CLE (they pick up garbage on demand)
6) Anywhere in the US
7) Your hometown
His hometown
9) Other (please specify)