Or we can all make smart decisions together!
I have friends and relatives who struggle daily and it's not bc they are stupid. It's because we grew up in a society that makes poor financial decisions as a whole. How can you argue that it doesn't affect us all?!
And this is where we differ. I am a big believe in being an individual and making your own decisions. There is no such thing as making a financial decision as a whole? Are your friends stupid? I don't know them but I would guess not. Irresponsible? Seemingly. Followers of a pack and unable to make their own decisions? Maybe.
If you want me to just make my own good decisions and be happy you must also think I should just ignore others misery and struggles right?
Not at all what I said
you are very bothered by other people's (financial) decisions. IME you will lead a happily life if you don't concentrate on that and concentrate on your own decisions (obviously you should help people out when you can, but if they don't listen, don't take it personally)
spreading the word about your own foolish decisions and how you arrived at them can be very helpful to others. They wont have to learn from their mistakes they can learn from yours
I agree wholeheartedly. Just that doesn't mean yelling at people, or
I hate the fact that bc every one around us thinks a certain way ('Oh, leasing is a great idea') , people make bad financial decisions when they could have done better otherwise.
and hear you just sound like an angry, bitter person
Even if you can afford it, it's stupid! Why do we let society drum these stupid ideas into our heads! It's just a car! It doesn't make you smarter, richer, or better looking! You (no one specific) still have bad breath and now you are poorer! Save the money and invest it!
if you let society dictate to you, then that right there Is the root of your troubles. because sine people make foolish decisions, you can't let that affect you, be it credit cards leasing having children etc...
+10000000000
How is different from talking to someone who complains about the price of an airline ticket and you say "It doesn't have to be this way! There's a whole community of people who have figured out how to go places for free!" And that is how you help people.
Because he doesn't get angry at those who don't listen. And it doesn't influence his decision of whether or not to pay for his next vacation
I am a big believer in making your own decisions. Don't fret over the things you can't control and take ownership over that which you do.
That will make you a happier person. Not being a millionaire