Who is occupying what? You cannot keep jumping back and forth between religious beliefs and political views. It doesnt work that way. Israel has tried whatever you stated. They dont have a partner. You cant negotiate with yourself. See e.g. Gaza pullout.
Please answer these questions with direct answers:
1. If you think Jews dont belong there where do they belong?
2. What "pro-active" solution do you envision?
3. Define occupying.
4. What do you have against Rabbi Berel Wein, other than the fact that he is a pious jew and a Zionist?
1. Golus. Until Moshiach comes.
2. A מדינה דו-לאומית with equal rights for all it's citizens, not discriminating against Arabs, Mizrachim, or Chareidim
3. Read the Geneva Rules of war, wiki has a good article.
4. He's a friend and I daven by him often, just saying your views seem to be coming straight off his version of history.