I agree that it's not for everyone. But unfortunately, a majority of frum jews don't even consider it as an option to determine it it's 'for them'. They daven for it everyday, w/o ever thinking about the words they're saying.
Often I think about the face that we say next year in Jerusalem and how many things would have to change for EVERYONE to be happy and live peacefully together in Jerusalem.
it says that moshiach will solve the yichus issue. I don't think even he will be able to bring peace for us
I personally find it slightly insulting the OP asked for a favor and hasn't logged back on since.