ok so i just called eBay they said the funds are in unclaimed and if i see a cancel transaction button that will solve it ( no button so they gave me paypals # and i called Paypal @ 888-221-1161 )
Paypal said it will take 10 days to get back my money......I told them it was clearly a scam, the money is even unclaimed and i cant wait that long .... they transferred me to the security team and they got my refund done on the spot
money back in my account !! yay