Since he was explaining my motivation, your response of having a bridge to sell him was an expression that he was gullible in believing that I really like shmura. A shot at him and me - twice the sina'as chinam for just one post.
The internet may be a "killer emotionally" but I can't see why you would add to everyone's agmas nefesh because you want to get even for something unrelated to this discussion.
You totally misunderstood me.
I was giving him a jab (i'm not sure that's considered sinas chinam but we can leave that up for a DDF poll
) because he was gullible in understanding my joke as serious and answered in his normal nasty manner. I knew that you enjoyed SM, as do i and no "sinas chinam" was intended towards you.
As for your second point, isn't that what you are doing right now? It's ok for but not for me? It's the internet, its a forum, it's a discussion. It's ok. Don't take it as a personal affront if someone throws something into the thread you created that you don't want. People can skip any comment they don't want. And as an aside, this back and forth just makes the thread more read, not less. So it's actually helpful for you.
I'll finish this post with an ad for you:
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