The video is jarring because we usually associate this type of garbage with a certain type, but this crowd of people looks so regular. Crazy how this type of stuff creeps in.
What do the Gedolei Yisroel say?
probably donated by her or in memory of someone very close to her.
The clip looks like it's from a siyum sefer Torah, probably donated by her or in memory of someone very close to her.It doesn't look like it was during davening or at a very packed situation
Would this change anything if it’s in the men side in a shul ?
Rav Moshe says in Europe the ladies would come into the shul to say kaddish IIRC. That would be roundly condemned today.
Because today it’s (for the most part) because of unholy reasons, as part of a larger trend.
This is very much not the case. Is it very common that the women struggle with how their brothers are doing something for the neshama of the parent numerous times a day while they feel much more limited. I have dealt with this numerous times and as recently as a few weeks ago with a girl going to seminary. My go-to is to go through the kitzur shulchan aruch at the end of hilchos kaddish how raising children al derech hyashar is a much bigger zchus than kaddish.
Did they go into shul to say kaddish? If they insisted on doing so I would suspect it's for the wrong reasons.
