So sorry for you loss....
My Sisters story:
When my Dad passed in Dec. my Sister came from London via Virgin .
During check in, LHR lady at the counter asked her why she was coming
to SFO ... when she said she was going to our Dad's funeral. Lady said sorry
to hear that... and just upgraded my sister to upper class which is Virgins First
class. My Sister said she was so surprised and was tearful when Lady told her to
proceed to the Virgin lounge and seat in Upper class.
Although she did not ask
or said much to the Lady @ the counter she was upgraded without questions.
I guess there are still a lot of very good people out there.