Thanks for the feedback guys. Any more comments welcomed.
The reasons for moving to Israel are multi-faceted, and include the desire to gradually shed, rather than simply maintain, the same American lifestyle and mentalilty. I'd have thought is probably an easier process when done with others who are going through the same process (ie anglo olim)
I think my family would greatly benefit from (to quote Drago) the 'soft landing' of spending at least the first year or two in Israel with a good network of anglo olim.
Moving straight into an Israeli community sounds like jumping in at the deep end of a cold pool. I do not wish for myself or my family to feel totally alienated from the get go.
We are still considering living outside Jerusalem because of affordability concerns, but there are many reasons for wanting to live in J'rem, due to resources available there which other communities do not offer.