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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #20 on: July 30, 2014, 06:23:20 PM »
How much do you pay if it's your brother?

do you get a MT?

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #21 on: July 30, 2014, 06:26:27 PM »
do you get a MT?
Don't you get a belated one??

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #22 on: July 30, 2014, 06:45:21 PM »
Don't you get a belated one??

Yup!

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #23 on: July 30, 2014, 07:24:27 PM »
is he your mohel of choice or do you feel obligated to allow him to gain experience with your baby?

Let's say both.

ummm....let him gain experience elsewhere. Unless hes an expert I wouldnt let him touch my child. Same goes for residents vs doctors at the hospital. That said, a nice gift would be nicer than a cash to a relative

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #24 on: July 30, 2014, 07:28:05 PM »
Never knew ppl pay so much, I gave $200 or $250 (don't remember) and I thought I was pretty fair.

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #25 on: July 30, 2014, 08:22:35 PM »
ummm....let him gain experience elsewhere. Unless hes an expert I wouldnt let him touch my child. Same goes for residents vs doctors at the hospital. That said, a nice gift would be nicer than a cash to a relative

You can avoid having students or residents work on you at hospitals by avoiding the teaching hospitals and just going to some no-name hospital--especially in a rural area.

I don't recommend it.

Also, he IS an expert, and IS my mohel of choice.  And I also feel obligated to use him because he is my brother--not because of he needs the experience. He is fully experienced.

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #26 on: July 30, 2014, 08:40:16 PM »
You can avoid having students or residents work on you at hospitals by avoiding the teaching hospitals and just going to some no-name hospital--especially in a rural area.

I don't recommend it.

Also, he IS an expert, and IS my mohel of choice.  And I also feel obligated to use him because he is my brother--not because of he needs the experience. He is fully experienced.

Or you can just refuse the interns and residents and wait either for your doctor or an attending. Excellent, it sounded like you were saying you were obligated and that you were giving him the experience. No issue at all then


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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #27 on: July 30, 2014, 08:52:24 PM »
is he your mohel of choice or do you feel obligated to allow him to gain experience with your baby?
How about the latter

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #28 on: July 30, 2014, 09:14:20 PM »
Or you can just refuse the interns and residents and wait either for your doctor or an attending.

If you do that, they have the orderlies do your surgery.

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #29 on: July 30, 2014, 09:15:45 PM »
This question really all depends on how much of a cut the mohel is taking...

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #30 on: July 30, 2014, 09:31:22 PM »
This question really all depends on how much of a cut the mohel is taking...
I assume that was pun intended.

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #31 on: July 30, 2014, 09:33:45 PM »
I paid 600,two years ago

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #32 on: July 30, 2014, 09:34:48 PM »
I paid 600,two years ago

600?  Anyone asks me for that much, and I'm crying "uncle."

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #33 on: July 30, 2014, 09:37:43 PM »
600?  Anyone asks me for that much, and I'm crying "uncle."
What if it is your brother, not your uncle... And you only let him because you feel obligated
« Last Edit: July 30, 2014, 09:47:49 PM by bzuckerman59 »

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #34 on: July 30, 2014, 09:43:01 PM »
So @henche i guess you get a mazal tov.... Jl is slacking off... Where's the shalom z?

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #35 on: July 30, 2014, 09:55:19 PM »
i paid rabbi baum in israel 1000nis
i dont think they are allowed to charge....

i recommend him very highly....

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #36 on: July 30, 2014, 10:05:58 PM »
I assume that was pun intended.
ya think?

It was a desperate attempt

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #37 on: July 30, 2014, 10:25:22 PM »
Those who say a mohel can't charge well neither can a teacher of torah. Those days are behind us.

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #38 on: July 30, 2014, 10:25:48 PM »
No, I do not get a MT, beyond for getting married last October.  Sorry for any confusion folks.  But my brother IS an expert mohel, and I WOULD cry uncle if someone charged me 600 for something my wife could do with a rock.

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Re: How much do you pay a Moel??
« Reply #39 on: July 30, 2014, 10:30:32 PM »
No, I do not get a MT, beyond for getting married last October.  Sorry for any confusion folks.  But my brother IS an expert mohel, and I WOULD cry uncle if someone charged me 600 for something my wife could do with a rock.
If I was a Mohel and someone told me that I'd say be my guest...