The women seem to be saying they were controlled and pressured (arraigned) to get married. This is a problem as I see it. Some take this as I am trying to only show the negatives.
Well according to Pearl Reich, my wife was coerced into marrying me (as I live in Lakewood) and the chances are that I'm an abuser too because this whole 'scheme' is an orchestration meant to trap women into marrying young so that they have kids and are then trapped into staying religious. WOW!!!
In my (non hassidic yet ultra orthodox circles) I don't know anyone who married that young or was forced into marriage.
In the Satmar community where these alleged 'injustices' toward women take place, the facts are definitely being misrepresented.
I am not 100% familiar with their exact dating practices but I do know that the overwhelming majority of them don't meet only once having no say in the matter. Additionally, most of them are happily married and are not simply 'locked' into abusive marriages against their will for fear of losing their children.
Do I believe that 18 year olds should meet only 2-3 times before deciding to marry? No.
Does that mean that Boro Park/Williamsburg/Lakewood/Monsey/Monroe is full of or even has a substantial number of wife beaters? NO!
The system is working pretty well and maligning Orthodox Jewry as a Cult (I know, I'm mixing 2 threads together...) is not going to open the gates of honest discussion - rather it will just cause outrage at these blatant lies.