Even if They say the right is left .....
I repeat, we were definitely brought up differently
See appropriate thread. NOBODY PASKENS LIKE THAT. You are absolutely not supposed to follow a Rabbi who directs you to do something you know is wrong, as the Rambam and all others say explicitly, and people have been
duly punished throughout history for following directives from actual gedolim, from קרח and on.
Those who brought you up so did so out of fear you would question them if you question others. It is not the correct way. Life is an obstacle course, and one of those obstacles is judging facts to ascertain if they are true, false, or inconclusive, however hard that may be for you.
This is all true whether I'm an idiot shaygetz or not.