What's better to do? I received an offer from Marriot to sign up friends and get 10,000 per signup up to five. I figured my wife could sign up. I get 10,000, she gets 50,000 after 1,000 spend. Or, I think I saw a 70,000 for a 2,000 spend. Now I see folks are requesting 80,000 for a 3,000 spend. Which would be better? And of course one year free, then can chuck the card. Also, does anyone know if my wife and I can give the points to each other.