1)should one go or try to get out of it 2)what are excuses that actually work for men and women.
do not even show up for 1st notice -- when they send next notice
a) tell them never recvd --if u feel must reply
b) tell them moved to bronx brklyn etc any place but not current address -- nyc does not have money or man power to send someone to ur home
c) or go down when u think u must --show them airline ticket going out of country
d) or spend two weeks sitting around court house waiting and hoping not to be selected