wow this is intense.
dirah i would offer you a cigarrette, thats all i can conclude from this thread.
but i am impressed with your arguments. but in all honesty, i dont really see the argument here
dirah is saying that makom sheminhag lechasos is not defined (at all?) by what goyim do there. so a bathroom has a din of...
and the tree that the locals use as a bathroom you wouldnt use? somewhat far but i believe there is some consideration of what the goyim do.
i would think that if everyone ran around ingantzen arum it wouldnt be an issue, just like a mikva. the issue would be the taaruvos. am i wrong? so when theres womens swimming day its an issue?
THAT i believe was chuchem's argument, that while it is not minhag lechasos there still may be people, as it not a private pool.
and a 1% chance of someone seeing you i dont think qualifies as an argument, because, although tznius has to do with hergeishim, here
is not minhag lechasos, and the person seeing is an issue separately. its just women's swimming day with a bigger chance of someone walking in.
so the question, isolated, is how private can one consider this situation.
but then again, i am single, so me and dirah should be staying out of this thread