Any time there's any casualty, there's always something that we need to take out from it.
I agree with this.
Sometimes it's hard to see the message, other times it is easier.
I do not agree with this.
I don't think I understand who Hashem decides to kill and why they die. I don't think my G-d woke up on shabbos day and said. Ok a gay bris is not good, I will kill a 97 year old woman and 10 others, so people know it's not ok.
But of course you are entitled to your own opinion.