If you have a relegious ceromony, but you neglected to get a licence from the state, you are not legally married.
And if "Marriage" includes the union between two men, then I am not "Married". What I have, and the ceromony that i was part of, is not valid between two men.
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The legal definition of marriage has nothing to do with the religious definition of marriage. If two men or woman can be married, then the definition of marriage has nothing to do with the marital relationship, but rather is defined by registering yourself as married. If our religion doesn't consider their marriages a marriage, then obviously they have nothing to do with each other, and their laws don't have to consider our marriages a marriage.
It's completely commonplace for people to live together for years, have children together, build their lives together, and yet consider themselves only boyfriend and girlfriend. The word marriage obviously has no relationship to our religions definition, if two people of the same gender are considered married and these people aren't. Hence, just because you're religiously married, doesn't have any bearing on your legal status.
Keep telling yourself what you want but at the end of the day you know, while you may not admit it, that you are scamming the government and don't give a rats ass about the legal definition of marriage. If suddenly married people had taxes cut in half every one of these liars would be running to get married even if marriage included allowing a man to marry his brother.
Well, yes. The definition of marriage, according to the law, is filling out some paperwork declaring yourself married. Nothing more, and nothing less. If there was a tax law that said that if you sign your name on a piece of paper, you get 50% off of your taxes, everyone would sign it. Who cares who else is eligible to sign that paper? Being as eligibility is defined solely by that piece of paper, it is impossible to be a scammer, so long as you signed it. The signing of the paper paper doesn't attest to anything further than the signing of the paper itself.