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This thread is to discuss whether people feel that something is unethical, not to find out what the law*/T&C says.

Any Halachic questions should be posted here.

*According to CountValentine this includes religion, but unfortunately for him, the general consensus is that religion will always be entwined in this thread.

*Hint* If you have to ask, It's most likely not ethical.
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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1540 on: January 05, 2015, 05:48:42 PM »
If your question is which one is more ethical, the answer is undoubtedly the GC's.
That is like saying stealing a 100 from a rich person is more ethical than stealing it from a poor person.

Puts on flame retardant suit.  :)
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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1541 on: January 05, 2015, 05:51:22 PM »
That is like saying stealing a 100 from a rich person is more ethical than stealing it from a poor person.

Puts on flame retardant suit.  :)
It will probably be burned through pretty quick.

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1542 on: January 05, 2015, 05:55:24 PM »
Why is everyone so obsessed with being ethical?

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1543 on: January 05, 2015, 06:01:44 PM »
Puts on flame retardant suit.  :)
you've been wearing that a lot lately :)
Putting on my flame retardant suit. He has a valid point.
People who used to wear that have disappeared over time ;)

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1544 on: January 05, 2015, 06:02:36 PM »
Why is everyone so obsessed with being ethical?
Chosamo shel hkb"h emes
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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1545 on: January 05, 2015, 06:03:14 PM »
People who used to wear that have disappeared over time ;)
The suits have vastly improved lately.
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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1546 on: January 05, 2015, 06:03:22 PM »
Chosamo shel hkb"h emes
What does ethics have to do with Emes?

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1547 on: January 05, 2015, 06:05:27 PM »
That is like saying stealing a 100 from a rich person is more ethical than stealing it from a poor person.

Puts on flame retardant suit.  :)
What's wrong with saying that?
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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1548 on: January 05, 2015, 06:20:52 PM »
What's wrong with saying that?
Nothing wrong with saying it the problem is when someone believes it.
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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1549 on: January 05, 2015, 06:28:20 PM »
GCs may be against T&C for this credit, but I never ask them to give me the credit for this purchase. I am making an actual, authentic purchase - yes, with the hopes that Amex will refund it. It is their choice to go ahead and refund that purchase against their own T&C. I never asked them to do  it, and if they don't my purchase will still be the same. Obviously, I am still manipulating the system by purchasing gcs that I know others have gotten credit for, but it is still different than making a non-purchase to try and trigger a refund IMHO. Feel free to disagree!
very shallow argument, nothing to do with ethics, which word in your entire post does not apply to both gc and pggm alike if anything gc is explicitly excluded as apposed to pggm (afaik), what does ending up with a product in hand have to do with making it more ethical

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1550 on: January 05, 2015, 07:01:05 PM »
Nothing wrong with saying it the problem is when someone believes it.
I'm not saying either is OK. The question is which is more ethical. And that question becomes relevant if you would die unless you stole who do you steal from
Life isn't about checking the boxes. Nobody cares.

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1551 on: January 06, 2015, 07:59:53 PM »
Re: PGGM vs. gcs for Amex $200 airline credit:

PGGM is a purchase that I never intended to go through with, made just to trigger the credit.

GCs may be against T&C for this credit, but I never ask them to give me the credit for this purchase. I am making an actual, authentic purchase - yes, with the hopes that Amex will refund it. It is their choice to go ahead and refund that purchase against their own T&C. I never asked them to do  it, and if they don't my purchase will still be the same. Obviously, I am still manipulating the system by purchasing gcs that I know others have gotten credit for, but it is still different than making a non-purchase to try and trigger a refund IMHO. Feel free to disagree!
IMHO i dont see anything unethical with PGGM... AMEX is willing to write you a check for $200, from what i understand you can book the ticket with another CC and just the EC upgrade with AMEX. if this is true then AMEX doesnt stand to gain anything by you actually receiving the EC seat or not. even if im wrong about the upgrade there are plenty of things you can purchase (in flight snacks etc) that wouldnt require you to spend additional money on AMEX card. so i dont really see a reason why they lose out with this method...

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1552 on: January 06, 2015, 08:32:44 PM »
Have we considered that perhaps the airlines are eating the cost not amex?

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1553 on: January 06, 2015, 08:43:30 PM »
Have we considered that perhaps the airlines are eating the cost not amex?
no we havee not. Please explain how the airline loses.

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1554 on: January 06, 2015, 08:44:10 PM »

IMHO i dont see anything unethical with PGGM... AMEX is willing to write you a check for $200, from what i understand you can book the ticket with another CC and just the EC upgrade with AMEX. if this is true then AMEX doesnt stand to gain anything by you actually receiving the EC seat or not. even if im wrong about the upgrade there are plenty of things you can purchase (in flight snacks etc) that wouldnt require you to spend additional money on AMEX card. so i dont really see a reason why they lose out with this method...
huh? I don't claim to know their reasoning, but according to your reasoning why does Amex limit the statement credit at all. Why don't they just give you a $200 credit on any purchases?

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1555 on: January 06, 2015, 08:50:24 PM »
huh? I don't claim to know their reasoning, but according to your reasoning why does Amex limit the statement credit at all. Why don't they just give you a $200 credit on any purchases?
they have a right to limit the credit in any way they deem fit. As long as they don't lose out I don't see a problem ethically.

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1556 on: January 06, 2015, 08:55:04 PM »

they have a right to limit the credit in any way they deem fit. As long as they don't lose out I don't see a problem ethically.
and by limiting the credit that makes me suspect that they believe there is something to gain, Which pggm is causing them to not realize.

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1557 on: January 06, 2015, 08:57:51 PM »
and by limiting the credit that makes me suspect that they believe there is something to gain, Which pggm is causing them to not realize.
lav davka.... What do they gain by making you select an airline 1st?? A lot of T&C are just minimize the application of the credit or discount etc... I don't understand how they could lose. If I knew that they did lose I would send them a check tonight. And of course cancel the card

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1558 on: January 06, 2015, 08:59:43 PM »
no we havee not. Please explain how the airline loses.

I don't know, but it is certainly possible that the airline absorbs the loss, or at least part of it

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1559 on: January 06, 2015, 10:21:52 PM »
I don't know, but it is certainly possible that the airline absorbs the loss, or at least part of it
anything is POSSIBLE... Anyone to confirm one way or another? I would PUTPAC... Unless you think a DDFer would kill me in my sleep (or at least try)