New Shidduch Idea

[meshugener]

Males can test positive for pregnancy. It means they have cancer.

Will give it a try later today.

[YankyDoodle]

Males can test positive for pregnancy. It means they have cancer.

It means they may have cancer or they may actually be women. It also can mean the test was wrong.

[etech0]

Will give it a try later today.

keep us posted, please

[meshugener]

keep us posted, please

Will have live updates in the Mushroom Lounge.

[chevron]

Ok, so because the shiduch system sucks you have no problem staying single until something unimaginable happens. Fine.

Now, if I may ask you: (I'm not going to be explicit, but use common sense to understand what I mean.)
You don't have any problems not being married? I mean you're human.
Or, maybe,  do you practice the alternative? I know your friends do. But do you manage without it?

The whole "we need to get married to get laid" thing? I cant be blackmailed... again, G-d put me in this situation where I am not getting married, i'll be fine in the beis din shel maalah.. I have bigger issues to contend with

[YankyDoodle]

I think it's important to recognize that the shidduch system does not work for everybody. There are people with medical conditions or unfortunate family circumstances that places them at an unfair disadvantage in the shidduch game. They are constantly set up with people who are not reasonably compatible or have more significant personality problems. It is normal for them to get burned out from all of the ridiculous suggestions and try to find a way to cope with their reality by enjoying single life. This doesn't mean they don't want to get married on some level, they are just dealing with things in their own way.

[chevron]

I think it's important to recognize that the shidduch system does not work for everybody. There are people with medical conditions or unfortunate family circumstances that places them at an unfair disadvantage in the shidduch game. They are constantly set up with people who are not reasonably compatible or have more significant personality problems. It is normal for them to get burned out from all of the ridiculous suggestions and try to find a way to cope with their reality by enjoying single life. This doesn't mean they don't want to get married on some level, they are just dealing with things in their own way.

I dont see why I would marry someone with ANY issues, I spent enough time at doctors, I hate hospitals..

[sky121]

I agree. I think 'chevron' is just discouraged and trying to deal with things and his reality. Is that correct?

[YankyDoodle]

I dont see why I would marry someone with ANY issues, I spent enough time at doctors, I hate hospitals..

Assuming that you have some basal interest in getting married, it's a stretch to say that you are going to find someone without any issues. We all have issues. Hopefully, we find someone who's issues aren't bothersome to us or better yet, are attractive! So yes, you should not have to marry someone with any issues!

[sky121]

Assuming that you have some basal interest in getting married, it's a stretch to say that you are going to find someone without any issues. We all have issues. Hopefully, we find someone who's issues aren't bothersome to us or better yet, are attractive! So yes, you should not have to marry someone with any issues!

It seems he was focusing specifically on medical issues.

[chevron]

I agree. I think 'chevron' is just discouraged and trying to deal with things and his reality. Is that correct?

Rather than get run over by the bus, I took a plane

Here's a shiduch idea: you walk with me across this bridge http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seven_Mile_Bridge

If I dont jump iff the bridge to put myself out of the brutal agony of it all, you get a 2nd date.

Speed dating is where you gotta last the car drive accross

[meshugener]

G-d put me in this situation where I am not getting married,

No, YOU put yourself into this situation.
Don't blame your G-d for not doing something he gave you the option to do.

i'll be fine in the beis din shel maalah..

No, you'll not be fine.

[chevron]

if I was forced in to a date i'd take this bridge http://ramblerzone1.floridaramblerme.netdna-cdn.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/7-mile-bridge-view-disconne.jpg

[chevron]

No, YOU put yourself into this situation.
Don't blame your G-d for not doing something he gave you the option to do.
 

No, you'll not be fine.

Nu nu, i'll burn for one thing or another

[meshugener]

Nu nu, i'll burn for one thing or and another

FTFY

[henche]

I think it's important to recognize that the shidduch system does not work for everybody. There are people with medical conditions or unfortunate family circumstances that places them at an unfair disadvantage in the shidduch game. They are constantly set up with people who are not reasonably compatible or have more significant personality problems. It is normal for them to get burned out from all of the ridiculous suggestions and try to find a way to cope with their reality by enjoying single life. This doesn't mean they don't want to get married on some level, they are just dealing with things in their own way.

What kind of idiot gets married through the shidduch system?

[chevron]

FTFY

I'll plead tinok shenishba  I dont control the situation.

If you are so bothered by the course of events, go set up a new system

[YankyDoodle]

No, YOU put yourself into this situation.
Don't blame your G-d for not doing something he gave you the option to do.

You don't know his circumstances or anyone's for that matter. If you want to talk in general that people have a choice that's fine, but to claim you know what an individual can or cannot do is wrong.

[meshugener]

You don't know his circumstances or anyone's for that matter. If you want to talk in general that people have a choice that's fine, but to claim you know what an individual can or cannot do is wrong.

That is correct.

[meshugener]

I'll plead tinok shenishba  I dont control the situation.

Won't fly.

Come up with something better.