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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #640 on: February 07, 2024, 10:29:27 PM »



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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #641 on: February 08, 2024, 10:32:26 AM »

Metame? How exactly? By screaming into a bullhorn?

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #642 on: February 08, 2024, 10:33:55 AM »
Metame? How exactly? By screaming into a bullhorn?
From the videos going around she was somewhat dancing to the chants. I'd assume thats against their standards.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #643 on: February 08, 2024, 10:35:15 AM »
From the videos going around she was somewhat dancing to the chants. I'd assume thats against their standards.
Their standards is burying everything under the rug, and they don't like a girl screaming in public and making a trask.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #644 on: February 08, 2024, 10:43:48 AM »
Their standards is burying everything under the rug, and they don't like a girl screaming in public and making a trask.

Uncalled for, Lashon Hara, and that truck does not look like it has a rug over it.
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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #645 on: February 08, 2024, 10:58:14 AM »
Uncalled for, Lashon Hara, and that truck does not look like it has a rug over it.
I'm being metame the city?

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #646 on: February 08, 2024, 10:58:50 AM »
and they don't like a girl screaming in public and making a trask.

Let me guess, this is because of generational privileged misogony

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #647 on: February 08, 2024, 11:04:12 AM »
Let me guess, this is because of generational privileged misogony
Lol, they could not like it, but just ignore it. Don't feed the troll if you don't like her or her tactics.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #648 on: February 08, 2024, 11:06:14 AM »
they don't like a girl screaming in public and making a trask.
Did you not read this post?

From the videos going around she was somewhat dancing to the chants. I'd assume thats against their standards.
Did you see the videos. I'm sorry, not I'm chassidish in the slightest. However, a few were definitely provocative to their standards. If they wanted outsiders to come in and bring "provocative behaviors", they never needed to open their own town. What is so difficult about this? Whole Get issue aside

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #649 on: February 08, 2024, 11:10:26 AM »
Who's "they"?? Like always, one person decided to rent a screen truck, another crazy throws pashkevillin and most people don't care.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #650 on: February 08, 2024, 11:11:34 AM »
Lol, they could not like it, but just ignore it. Don't feed the troll if you don't like her or her tactics.

This is entirely different to what you said previously. Why not defend your position? Also, I love the irony of saying that they could quiet the protestor by ignoring her protests rather than make noise, and her protests are to shout about something she feels is being ignored. Goose:gander, thee:me - pick your phrase.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #651 on: February 08, 2024, 11:32:33 AM »
Did you not read this post?
Did you see the videos. I'm sorry, not I'm chassidish in the slightest. However, a few were definitely provocative to their standards. If they wanted outsiders to come in and bring "provocative behaviors", they never needed to open their own town. What is so difficult about this? Whole Get issue aside
No, I did not see the videos. I'm familiar with KJ, but old fashioned yelling foi, instead of moving on is just stupid. Especially if you technically agree with her and the local Dayan that he should give a get.

Who's "they"?? Like always, one person decided to rent a screen truck, another crazy throws pashkevillin and most people don't care.
Maybe.
This is entirely different to what you said previously. Why not defend your position? Also, I love the irony of saying that they could quiet the protestor by ignoring her protests rather than make noise, and her protests are to shout about something she feels is being ignored. Goose:gander, thee:me - pick your phrase.
Same thing. They don't like a girl screaming in public, but they don't know how to handle it.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #652 on: February 08, 2024, 11:49:16 AM »
Am I the only one that has no clue what's flying here? I want to ask for some explanation but my gut is telling me that I'm better off not knowing.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #653 on: February 08, 2024, 11:52:48 AM »
Am I the only one that has no clue what's flying here? I want to ask for some explanation but my gut is telling me that I'm better off not knowing.
Don't think there's much to it.  According to FG, there is a family that is withholding a get from a girl (I say family, because the husband is not mentally stable mostly at this point and the family is the one refusing the get), and she is pressuring them to give a get. They are ignoring the Dayanim in KJ who said to give a get, etc. She went down to KJ with signs and bullhorns and there were people standing there and yelling back. That's all I know.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #654 on: February 08, 2024, 02:28:06 PM »
They are ignoring the Dayanim in KJ who said to give a get, etc.

I know nothing about the case, but if the local dayanim are pushing for a get how exactly is that "burying under the rug" you accused them of earlier?

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #655 on: February 08, 2024, 02:52:10 PM »
I know nothing about the case, but if the local dayanim are pushing for a get how exactly is that "burying under the rug" you accused them of earlier?
I didn't mean that it wasn't being handled properly by the Dayanim, which it seems even FG says it is (as much as I gathered, I didn't see any of the posts directly). It's just they can't handle when someone screams on the street to pressure the family which in this case seems culpable.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #656 on: February 08, 2024, 03:20:44 PM »
I didn't mean that it wasn't being handled properly by the Dayanim, which it seems even FG says it is (as much as I gathered, I didn't see any of the posts directly). It's just they can't handle when someone screams on the street to pressure the family which in this case seems culpable.
Or maybe they don't like having someone who has an agenda that isn't based in halacha and is willing to do away with halacha to further her agenda?
I wonder what people who type "u" instead of "you" do with all their free time.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #657 on: February 08, 2024, 04:05:42 PM »
Or maybe they don't like having someone who has an agenda that isn't based in halacha and is willing to do away with halacha to further her agenda?
Lol, I have no clue about this besides the basics that I posted, but I can tell you that the people who are yelling foi are doing it because there's a lady screaming on a bullhorn and don't care what her message is and don't necessarily agree or not agree with it. That's all.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #658 on: February 08, 2024, 05:45:30 PM »
Lol, I have no clue about this besides the basics that I posted, but I can tell you that the people who are yelling foi are doing it because there's a lady screaming on a bullhorn and don't care what her message is and don't necessarily agree or not agree with it. That's all.

This doesn't sound anything like sweeping under a rug.
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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #659 on: February 08, 2024, 06:04:48 PM »
This doesn't sound anything like sweeping under a rug.
Yes, that is correct. I was not being accurate with my earlier description.